I just wanted to see if wither of you would like to
join in the round robin of e-mails commencing this
month. Initially they were begun by
Bobby Smithey and
Ralph Rouse in attempt to cheer the
ailing Gary Shinall up with Growing Up Years Reminiscences.
Because their spillover effect has been to cheer
ALL OF US UP and provide an excellent opportunity to recall
and recap our various Elementary School memories as a
starter, I'm hopeful you two will join in as well, and
invite any and all other participants.
Your
friend always, Hames
Subject: OUR GROWING UP
YEARS IN PB
Dear Bobby and Ralph,
I just wanna say to you both, that these wonderful
reminiscences of our respective growing up years in PB, have
to be uplifting to Gary Shinall, as he struggles with Lou
Gehrig's, but they are also having a spillover effect on all
of us fortunate enough to be also receiving them !
In fact, via your First Ward memories, I think you may
have provided the impetus to prompt all of us to consider
adding our collective memories of those great growing up
years, capturing moments to include all our old Elementary
School & adjoining neighborhood memories. It seems to me a
great place to begin would be to just off the top of our
heads, type into e-mails, the names of as many of our
classmates from each of our respective schools as we can
recall. No doubt seeing all those names will prompt a
multitude of memories for all of us.
Since, when I returned to PB I was asked to co-write a
History of PB Schools with Miss Martin , the English teacher
who taught my dad and me and a bunch of others, and was given
an office that housed EVERY SINGLE ROLL BOOK FOR EVERY SINGLE
SCHOOL from the late 1800's on thru the 1950's, I got the
great opportunity to look at all our history
for several generations ( For instance, my great
aunt Elulalie had kept her birth year a secret, but in the
old ledgers I found it...1883....This was significant,
because when she finally passed away, it was 1993.
A Christian Scientist, she managed to live 110
years. When I told my doctor that she'd lived to be 110 and
never saw a doctor, he smiled and said " Maybe that's why
she lived so long ! " )
Anyway since the return to PB was pre copy machines I was
unable to photocopy anything, but I did painstakingly try to
write down all the names from the roll books for 4th-6th
grades at Lakeside, since those were the years I attended.
So if any or all think this might be good fun, plus a hedge
on developing early memory loss, I propose that we begin
brainstorming off the top of our heads and recalling as many
names of classmates and teachers, coaches and custodians,
and just see how many we can cumulatively recall.
As I recall, here are the chronological listings of our
elementary schools:
Sixth Avenue
First Ward
Sam Taylor
Gabe Meyer
Lakeside
and of course there's the Annunciation Academy too I think
between TBarton, TStone, et al, we can start the Lakeside
ball rolling. I will also forward this to Fred Ursery ( who
I hope will pass along to Milton Hughes et al ) and Bobby
Kientz to hopefully help recall some classmates at Sam
Taylor. As for Sixth Avenue, that's a tougher one. I know
that Overton
Anderson attended, as did Cappy Ware and the West Twins, and
Freddy might be able to get this to Overton and Cappy.
I'll close for now and await your response, but just so I'm
doing my part, I will next forward a reminiscence I wrote
recently that, tho not directly related to our grade
schools, is a story from the same era. It involved our scout
troop that met at Lakeside Methodist and the highlight of
which was all our campouts. Our scoutmasters included an
elderly alcoholic and a shell shocked WWII veteran, who,
bless his heart, peddled a bicycle in to our meetings, all
the way from
the Pine Bluff Arsenal.
The members of our scout troop as far as I can recall
included George Lemen, Dick Dewoody, Tommy Barton, Johnny
Williams, myself, Bill Stephenson, Bun Deweese, Wally
Pefferkorn, Buddy Reid, Wayne Matthews, and a number of
others, but that's enough names for the time being.
The
reason for my trying my best to recreate the Scout Story was
that recently I put " Will O the Wisp" into Wikipedia, just
to see how thorough this web site is. Well, it didn't let me
down, and tons of info turned up. That was the good news.
The dismaying news was that, Science, because it can't
authenticate that which it can't trap in a bottle and study,
has apparently relegated the Will O the Wisp to the same
category as UFO's !!!!
That was enough to prompt me to not only try to recall our
camp out encounter, but also to get corroboration from at
least two other eyewitnesses. Thank God, I was able to. Even
with so many of our compatriots gone, fortunately Dick Dewoody and Bill Stephenson, were able to recall, just as
vividly as I had and thus I was able to submit 3
eyewitnesses to be able to say the Will O The Wisp DID exist,
at least back in the early 1950's south of PB, before all
the swamps and other remote locations for it began to be
filled in or disappeared.
So
anyway, I hope the soon to be forwarded recounting of our
old scouting story will be good fun reading and my initially
sparse, but soon to be expanded ( God willin' ) list of names
from those same years, will prompt one and all to begin
listing as many of their Elementary School Classmates,
Teachers et al, and before we know it we may have a
cumulative grand all star cast list of all the major and
minor players from those thrilling days of yesteryear.
And
I will close with a piece of trivia: What was the name of
the movie theater that sat beside the side of the Strand ??
And so until the Will o the Wisp follows, I would only ask
that, Ralph, you and Bobby, forward this to any others of
the regulars you think might enjoy this all.
I
will, as stated, forward on my own to the aforementioned
above, and count on ya'll to forward on to any and all you
like.
Thanks
Old Friends ! Hames
OK, here
goes ! Please keep in mind, I am out of my depth on anything
pre 4th grade, but will recap the names I have heard over
the years when they come to me.
Principal: Mrs. Discher, then Mrs. Jones Coach: Rodney
Ryan, then Newt McCullough ( " Don't Call Me Newt ! " )
Custodian: Wesley ( A great ole fella )
Teachers: Page, Cherry, Thornton and Tarver, Roupe and
Bryant
Nurse: Mrs. Ferguson Supv. Mrs Dalby Head of
Maintenence: Mr. Grauman ( Butch & Sissy's dad )
Police Chief : My Great Uncle, Met Galligher...oops...just
kiddin' that one doesn't belong !!! BUT George Lemen's
grandad WAS Fire Chief !!
Rita Rowell, Bun Deweese, Dick Dewoody,Wayne Matthews,
Mike Crane, Clifford Crain, Mercer Mayer ( Now a famous
childrens'book illustrator. I learned to draw watching him
and Mike Crane, tho I sure never was as good as they were,
even back then ! ), Johnny Williams, Tommy Barton, Tommy
Stone, Tommy Clayton, Auvergne Weatherall, Nell
Phillips,Penny Perdue,Catherine Young, Margaret Coster,
Buddy reid, Bo Reid ( I believe he went back a grade at some
point...which brings me to The Perry Twins...Penny said she
doesn't recall them at Lakeside, yet I, like every other red
blooded Lakeside boy vividly recall Becky being there. My
memory is tho that she and Reggie had spent part of their
elementary school years at First Ward. Maybe some of you can
confirm that. But at any rate, I know I recall hearing once
that both sets of twins, The Roops at First Ward and The
Perrys at Lakeside had voluntarily stayed back a year, when
their twin came down with serious illness, and that's what
allowed us to have both these twins in our own class of 1961
!
Well, I'm at work and breaktime is over. I will try to
pick this back up at some point, but will also hope that
some of you will bring forth your own additions and that you
First Warders, Gabe Meyerers, Sam Taylorers, and Sixth
Avenuers and AA'ers will start your own lists rollin' Your
friend always,
Hames
PS Once again as you'll note, I am forwarding this to a
limited number, uncertain of who else might enjoy all
this memory exercizing ( exorcizing ??!! ) I will leave it
to you others to get this along to any others you think
might enjoy and add their own !!
HW
First off, an apologia.. Why this computer at work insists
on adding "?"'s every time I start a new paragraph is a
bewilderment, and I apologize for the distraction. If I knew
how to stop it I would, since I don't I just trust you all
will know that strings of question marks are not my doing.
Thanks !
Now to the Question at hand :
Ya'll, here's a real puzzler. Not sure we can arrive at a
satisfactory answer, but any thoughts on it all will be
greatly enjoyed.
The Boundaries That Defined Our Elementary School Districts.
I'll bet we all pretty much could say where the
boundaries of our respective elementary schools stretched
from
or at least come close.( Lakeside for instance, I am certain
of its Southernmost boundary as it was split right down
the middle of 22nd street, meaning that Travis Mitchell,
Kenny and Dick Calvert et al wound up attending Lakeside,
while their pals directly across the street ( Bill and Jane
Boyer, Cora Edna Randolph, Mike Bracken et al ) wound up
attending Gabe Meyer ) Now why in the world the powers that
be split neighborhood kids right down the middle of a
city street is beyond me ( Why not just say " OK, All kids
from 22nd street South go to Gabe Meyer, all kids North
go to Lakeside. Yet they split 22nd street right down the
middle baffling !!!
But believe it or not, that's not the baffler I'm
posing, tho I'd love to hear anybody's explanation for it !
But since we had no one of us right now representing Sixth
Avenue, here's the real puzzler !
Since one would assume that by the time we were growing up,
the Sixth Avenue school's population was shrinking.
My grandparents still lived on 4th, and I recall John Nash,
Richard Knox, Mike and Sissy Riggs and a few others
in their neighborhood, who, I know, went to Sixth Avenue.
I also know that the West Twins and Overtone Anderson
were brought from the Grider Field area to Sixth Avenue.
And I remember that Cappy Ware who lived near Annun.
Academy, which was right across the street from Sixth Ave.
went there.
But beyond those scant names, I am hard pressed to name
others. Maybe some of you can help with some additions.
Now, having said all that, here's the puzzler. The Pine
Bluff Arsenal kids. To my knowledge, ALL were bused
not to Sixth Avenue, a school they'd have to go right past,
but to Lakeside, a school I have been reminded by Catherine
was so filled to overflowing that the first three grades had
to be split into morning and afternoon classes.
Now maybe some of you will write back and say that Arsenal
kids WERE bused to Sixth Avenue and to your schools as well.
But then it still doesn't make sense that the PBArsenal bus
would just randomly drop off dribs and drabs
of arsenal kids, parceling them out to every school, when
in fact there weren't that many of 'em in the first place,
and further, and most baffling, since Sixth Avenue was
HURTING for kids and Sixth Avenue would've been
geographically closest by far, why in the world weren't the
Arsenal kids delivered there ??
Don't get me wrong, I fondly recall a number of the
arsenal kids enhancing Lakeside, including Gregory Hoffman,
et al, but it remains a baffler to me anyway, and I'd love
to hear back from any and all, not only on the Sixth Avenue
mystery, but as to your own recollections of your school's
boundaries.
To finish out with my own dim recall of Lakeside's, I
know that Lakeside's Eastern Boundary had to have gone at
least as far as Talbot, Rutherford and maybe all west of
Ohio, as Dewoody, The Weavers and Weatherfords all
attended Lakeside , so WHERE were First Ward's beginning
boundaries??
My guess on Lakeside's western boundary would be
Mulberry, but that may be wrong, as Sandra Mead attended
Sam Taylor. I've already listed the definite Southern
boundary, but will admit, I am out to sea on where the
Northern
boundary that did in fact decide who went to Sixth Ave and
who went to Lakeside might've been.
I can hear Wayne groaning over all this and shrugging "
Who Care's ? " And maybe not just Wayne, but doggone
it, this is fun for me and even if it doesn't spark any
response, I've enjoyed doing it.
Though I know our pal Marvin didn't join us til High
School I will be forwarding along to him, in case he had any
younger siblings or observations on how in the world the
arsenal decided who went to which school !
Hames
Again apologies, Catherine DOES remember the Perrys at
Lakeside. It was Penny & Wayne who said they
couldn't recall them there. Brudda Wayne, however, deserves
a heap of praise After all he is the one who
cared enough to preserve that list of all our classmates.
Fred Ursery writes that there were indeed Arsenal kids
at Sam Taylor, so there goes another faulty premise on my
part. I think I may be able to add suggestions for a couple
of those mystery names on the Lakeside roll lists Wayne
preserved.
"George Lewis " I think may in actuality be Walker
Lewis, who, as I recall started out in the same grade we
did, but due to problems with dyslexia ( probably little
understood at the time ) was held back a class, I think. (
Why on earth
the powers that be kept advancing some who were hopelessly
lost in school, while holding back others who were
just fine but struggling in an area they couldn't succeed in
without help is another mystery.)
As noted before, it was also my understanding that, due
to illnesses with one of each sets of twins, The Perrys and
The Roops, also stayed back a grade voluntarily, which
must've been a real sacrifice, God bless 'em.
I am on shakey ground as I try to claim once again that
at one time Lakeside had THREE sets of boy/girl twins,
as though, we all recall Kenny & Gay Gardner, and most do
recall Becky & Reggie, I can't seem to find any
fellow classmate, who recalls Bill and Kay Price being
there, so maybe I am hallucinating in triplicate.
There was another Bill Price in PB, but the one who was
in our class was a twin and wrote a book about his war
experiences and as I understand it works at....the Pine
Bluff Arsenal !!!
As our school system was segregated at that time I am
fairly confident that all Caucasians living east of Main
Street and South of Harding attended First Ward. You recall
our city boundary ended just south of Harding Avenue at that
time. The main thing I remembered living in the East End was
normally the further you went down a street, the tougher the
kids got. I always tried to avoid the kids living at the
very end of the street. Examples were Bobby Henderson, Louis
and Carl Preston, Guy Hankins, Kenneth Taylor, etc. Bobby
Henderson and his wife had twin boys. When they were grown,
one worked for Browning's Liquor Store. ( Yes Robert
Browning) Once it was robbed at gun point. Afterwards the
Henderson kid took off after the robbers, caught the one
with the money, beat the Hell out of him and brought the
money back. I remember Joe Ratliff's younger brother Dickie,
as a young man, leaving the old telephone building that was
converted into a night club. It was late at night when he
was approached and shot by a robber. Dickie took the pistol
away from the robber and (forgive the repetition) beat the
Hell out of him. Then he went to the hospital to get the
bullet removed.
Hey! I see Bun Deweese listed above in this email. Larry
Barton, his old college room mate says hello. Kinda reminds
me of an old Andy Griffin T V story when someone said "Tell
Gomer Goober says hey!" Bun, Larry is now Baptist Hospital
Administrator in Paducah, Kentucky.
Bob Smithey
NOPE! Lakesiders East of Main and South of Harding (and
North of Harding) included, Tommy Clayton, Carol Bell, Dick,
myself, Freddie Davis, LaFran Justice, Carl Wright,... and
probably several others that I have left out.... But all
lived south of 10th Street and East of Main.....
Tommy Barton
I stand corrected...North of Harding. I never could shoot a
back azimuth with a compass. I remember being trained one
Sunday in a huge field at Camp Lejeune, North Carolina when
Marines were working in groups with our compasses shooting
back azimuths. We would stand around confused when little
kids (who watched Jarheads trying to do this every Sunday)
would walk up to a group and address the Marine with the
compass saying " Want us to help you with that mister?"
Bob Smithey
Thanks a million to all the wonderful responses to helping
tie up some loose ends as well as unraveling some l
Eddie McColgan helped me to clarify that Lakeside's Coach,
Denzel Bailey's brother was Sam Taylor's coach, not
their principal. Hope Fred Ursery will help me recall the
name of the principal. Fred averred as how Sam Taylor also
had Arsenal kids bused there, so I guess maybe the arsenal
bus just careened all along PB's tree lined streets,
dropping off their cargo kids in some preordained fashion.
Which may also mean that Sxth Avenue got their share
as well. Wayne reminded me that Denzel was an unpaid coach
as opposed to the paid PE Instructors. As noted
those latter at Lakeside included Rodney Ryan, Elgie Goss
and Newt McCullough ( " Don't call me Newt ! " ) and
I wanna say that Bill Groce may've spent a few months there,
maybe practice teaching from HSTC or somewhere,
but I can't swear to that. Nor do I know if these PE
Instructors made the rounds to ALL of the Elementary
schools??
Speaking of old busses careening, I once had the
un-asked for " opportunity " to attend some undescribable
summer " experience " called " Mr. Burley's day Camp " or as
RFDewoody has reminded me, also referred to
as " Camp Saracen ", which, regardless of what it was
called, was still apparently the sole operation of old Mr.
Burley,
who would carreen down Elm street, bus exploding fumes and
brakes screeching, laying on the horn of the bus, and you
darn well had better be all ready for the Saturday out at
Oakland Park, or off he'd go gathering up the other poor
kids who'd been roped into this " opportunity " to " learn
woodlore. All I ever learned was that somehow Mr. Burley
was able to roll up his sleeve and stick it down into the
muck and mire of part of the lake near the Dead Alligator
display and pull up a handful of clam shells, or mussels or
whatever in the world they were. That is ALL I recall.
Dewoody understandably recalls nearly being killed by a
flying hatchet thrown by Johnny Williams or some other
crazed prisoner of the camp, and he still has the scar to
show for it !
The reason Mr. Burley came to mind is that incredibly
he only passed away recently and in his obit it said he'd
been a longtime principal at one of PB's Elementary Schools,
but maddeingly omitted which one. Anybody know ?
TCase has dashed any immediate hope of proving Bill & Kay
Price were at Lakeside as he recalls them at Gabe Meyer. I
think for a while they resided out past Byrd's Lake on the
last numbered street in the phone book, whatever
that was. What should make us all smile is how unusual it
was to actually have students who didn't spend their
entire school careers just at one school and neighborhood.
We were mostly all anchored in time and place and
community. What a place PB was back then too !
Bobby and Gary, when Miss Martin and I tried to put
together that History of PB Schools, I vividly recall that,
as
we listed the years of service, one teacher at First Ward
had a record that probably has never been topped.
58 continuous years of teaching at First Ward. I sure wish
I could tell you her name, but I'll bet YA'LL can tell ME !
And now I'll close this one off by just saying how much we
all seem to be enjoying all this and how gratifying it is
to keep our minds and memories sailing the seas of good
humor and uplift. I've loved lists all my life. When I was
a kid I made lists of my favorite baseball players and each
time I got a baseball card I'd put a check by their name.
Later and still do, list all my favorite movies over the
years et al. So these lists of the people and times and
neighborhoods we all enjoyed.
So, feeling like we've done pretty good justice to
Lakeside lists ( tho I still intend to pass it along to
DFinley and
others from different grades ) and seeing happily that Bobby
and Gary may be willing to plum their memories for
all their gang at First Ward, I thought it might be fun to
choose a school that apparently NONE of us attended,
but SURELY all of us will be able to help fill out what I
admit is going to be a very sparse beginning. But here
goes :
SIXTH AVENUE KIDS I CAN RECALL:
Cappy Ware
Overton Anderson
Ruth and Evelyn West
John Nash
Mike and Sissy Riggs
and ya'll, there it stands. Miniscule. Those classrooms had
kids in 'em, teachers teachin' 'em, and THIS is the best
I can do ??!!
So, maybe this beginning list will be the inspiration
for all to add their own remembered Sixth Avenuer !
And again thanks to all of you for just bein' out there !
Your friend always,
Hames.
Hames I
am not totally confident that Susie Gray who taught me in
the first grade at First Ward is the 58 year veteran but I
do recall my father telling me that Susie Gray taught him in
the first grade in 1922.
Bob Smithey
Again apologies, Catherine DOES remember the Perrys at
Lakeside. It was Penny & Wayne who said they
couldn't recall them there. Brudda Wayne, however, deserves
a heap of praise After all he is the one who
cared enough to preserve that list of all our classmates.
Fred Ursery writes that there were indeed Arsenal kids
at Sam Taylor, so there goes another faulty premise on my
part. I think I may be able to add suggestions for a couple
of those mystery names on the Lakeside roll lists Wayne
preserved.
" George Lewis " I think may in actuality be Walker
Lewis, who, as I recall started out in the same grade we
did, but due to problems with dyslexia ( probably little
understood at the time ) was held back a class, I think. (
Why on earth
the powers that be kept advancing some who were hopelessly
lost in school, while holding back others who were
just fine but struggling in an area they couldn't succeed in
without help is another mystery.)
As noted before, it was also my understanding that, due
to illnesses with one of each sets of twins, The Perrys and
The Roops, also stayed back a grade voluntarily, which
must've been a real sacrifice, God bless 'em.
I am on shakey ground as I try to claim once again that at
one time Lakeside had THREE sets of boy/girl twins,
as though, we all recall Kenny & Gay Gardner, and most do
recall Becky & Reggie, I can't seem to find any
fellow classmate, who recalls Bill and Kay Price being
there, so maybe I am hallucinating in triplicate.
There was another Bill Price in PB, but the one who was
in our class was a twin and wrote a book about his war
experiences and as I understand it works at....the Pine
Bluff Arsenal !!!
Hames
Hames 'ol buddy, I'm not completely certain but think I
remember Bill & Kay Price at Gabe Meyer. Maybe Kientz or
Cathcart recall???
Later,
Tommy Case
Tommy, I feel like an idiot. I was thinking Bobby ( Kientz
went to Sam Taylor ! ) Were you 2 and Jerry all at Gabe
Meyer the whole time !!??
Hames
Kientz should have and may have gone some to Sam Taylor
according to where his parents lived, but he lived with his
Grandparents in Circle Dr. most of the time. Others at Gabe
Meyer: Happy Caldwell, John & Clair Lee (twins), Rosemary
West, Cookie Willis, Sue Love, Paul Wright, Barbara
Anderson, Neil Underhill, "Kinky" Wilson, Vic Hiryak, Alva
Appling, Sharon Green & Joe Sturdivant are all I can come up
with off the top of my head. There was a kid named Stanley
Schultz that I want to think was from the P.B. Arsenal, but
not sure. Dr. Bruce is also a possibility? Maybe Kientz or
Cathcart can think of some more.
Tommy Case
Tommy ! Thank You So Much ! It's SO GREAT to see all those
wonderful names from Gabe Meyer ! Who was
ya'll's principal ? I know I should know, but I've
forgotten. I know they were a class ahead, but Bill Lafitte
and
Milton Hughes for sure, and maybe Roby Mize? Roby may've
gone to Sam Taylor tho ?
Anyway, now hopefully we can all begin adding to every
school's roster, thanks to you and Bobby giving us a
head start on Gabe Meyer and First Ward ! Your pal,
Hames
Roby Dan Mize was a First Ward kid. One of the East End
success stories. UAMS graduate.
Orthopedic surgeon. Collaborated with a Swiss doctor to help
write part of an orthopedic surgery manual. Now testifying
as an expert in the medical field during trials. Homes in
Dallas and San Francisco. Has enough money to burn a wet
mule.
Bob Smithey
Gary I just wanted you to see the positive correspondence
between your old classmates that you and Ralph are
responsible when you began sharing your family relationships
and concern for one another. Something very good has come
from the compassion you both share with one another.
We still have you and Barbara in our daily prayers.
Ralph we pray your shoulder is receptive to the
rehabilitation you are receiving. God Bless my friends. Bob Smithey
I
know a number of you have already been keeping Dick Dewoody
in your prayers. As some of you know, Dick has been
courageously struggling with cancer for some time. It had
reached the point that he decided he would make a " bucket
list " of things he wanted to do before he " kicked the
bucket " as he himself phrased it.
One of those things was to return to an alma mater of
long ago, which coincidentally would also be near the
MoonPie & RC Festival.
Stalwart longtime friend Wayne Matthews made all the
arrangements and went by to pick Dick up for the trip. No
answer. After getting no response either from inside or cell
phone, Wayne, resourceful as always, found a ladder, propped
it against the window ( 2nd floor ), and somehow,
Wayne, all 6 ft. 6 of him, managed to get thru the window.
RFD was lying on the kitchen floor, unconscious. Wayne,
again just the kind of friend you want around when God
forbid this kind of thing happens, made all the calls,
including a much later one to yours truly, to let us all
know that Dick was resting comfortably at the hospital, with
no memory of any of it all...including the now obviously set
aside Moon pie Festival.
I realize most of our e-mails have been unrelated to
the more temporal, and yet this series was actually begun by
Ralph Rouse and Bobby Smithey, recalling great old memories
to cheer up ailing Gary Shinall, who himself is struggling
with Lou Gehrig's, and whose gracious wife has been reading
all the e-mails aloud to Gary.
Dick has been very much on the mind of a number of us,
as he played a central role for some of us in those wonderful
growing up years we've been reminiscing about lately. As
recently as last week, when I got to share a lunch visit
with Eddie McColgan and Ted Luft, and looked at all the old
Lakeside Bluejay football photos, there was Dewoody, in his
civies, obviously designated by Coach Denzel as student
captain for the younger kids.
Dick has always been a fighter, and he has fought this
illness as bravely and stoically as any who know him would
expect. But I know it would be a real boost to know that our
collective gathering of e-mailers, has him and his daughter
and new grandson collectively in our thoughts and prayers.
I will count on Wayne to read this aloud to Dick if he
deems appropriate. In the meantime, I just wanna close by
saying, that when we all began this trek back to our Days in
PB, it quickly became a wonderful lift and smile inducer,
much needed in this world today, but as I write this it's
beginning to sink in that the origin of this all was
selfless desire to boost the morale of an old friend by
Bobby and Ralph and here it is again serving a similar
purpose for yet another. God bless you all.
Your friend always, Hames
Hames I forwarded your email to Gary as I know he will
appreciate any news about his old friends. Compassion is a
quality that clearly separates the good guys from the bad
guys.
You all are a bunch of good guys.
Wayne if you will please tell Dick that Anne and I
still value the memories of the great New Years Eve parties
you both provided a host of hundreds for several years.
Those parties mostly occurred during a time money was sparse
and friends were plentiful for Anne and myself. Anne and I
count ourselves fortunate to be on your and Dick's list of
friends. It was a time to congregate, laugh and share the
company of each other. As Charles Dickens once wrote "It was
the best of times." We send our prayers and thanks to
Dick.
Bob Smithey
Dick is still confused.. Sammye said he thought she was
Maggie and Maggie was her..... but when I left the hospital
tonight with Sammye, Maggie, and Gail (Cornish) Pruitt,
Weldon Crews was going to stay with him and they were going
to give Dick something for pain and start him on some
anti-seizure medicine. I will try to give you an update
tomorrow.
Tommy Barton
Gary we have covered football and basketball but have
omitted some of our track experiences. If you could see me
now you would understand why food comes to mind. After
funding the football athletic program apparently the funds
ran out at old PBHS. I remember on basketball trips if it
hadn't been for Lester Silbernagel we would have starved
since he paid for a lot of chicken fried steak dinners after
the games. He even funded our post season banquet and gave
us all a pair of red socks. I remember Roy Murtishaw was so
eager to eat the real steak placed in front of him at the
Plantation Embers when he tried to stab it the steak slipped
on his plate and fell on the floor. Since a real steak
dinner was a rare experience back then, Roy picked it up,
brushed it off, placed it on his plate and started slinging
elbows. Watching ole' Roy eat that steak wasn't so bad but
listening to him wore you out.
Bob Smithey
Now for the track trips. Absolutely no money was provided
for athlete meals following a track trip. If your parents
didn't have money to give you to run to a grocery store
sometime during the track meet you went hungry. After the
meet we had no time except to load onto the bus and head
home. The entrepreneurial sprit infected Taylor Eubank and
M. H. Levine. Taylor's Dad ran a grocery store so Taylor
procured bread, ham, mustard and small cartons of milk and
then enlisted the sandwich construction assistance of M. H.
They then iced all down in an ice chest and smuggled it onto
the bus and hid it under a blanket. After the track meet
anyone with any money was faced with a monopoly McDonalds
would have been proud. The price placed on those sandwiches
made with a skinny piece of ham and smeared lightly with
mustard would relate to the best steak dinner at Sonny
William's restaurant in Little Rock today. Taylor has been
retired from the FBI now for several years but I will always
suspect that his retirement has been supplemented by his
sandwich business investment income of years ago. A very
true story. Until next time my friend, God Bless
Bob Smithey
Dewoody
update: He must be feeling better this morning, he is
requesting that Maggie "get me out of this place". Maggie
is working with the nurses to try to get all of Dick's
medicines correct and working on his menus. What a
precious child!! We all would be proud.
Tommy Barton
Who'da
Thunk It !!??
Turns out TWO of our recent recipients attended Sixth
Avenue!!! Bun Deweese wrote he'd been there in grades one
and two, before moving away for 3 years and then came back
to PB and Lakeside. Bill Stephenson/Bowker wrote to say he'd
been also been at Sixth Avenue before coming to Lakeside in
the 4th when he and his wonderful family with
all those remarkable siblings moved next door to my family
on 20th & Elm.
Bun
and Bill, will it be asking too much on your memories to
recall where roughly you resided when attending Sixth
Avenue, as it sure might help us sort out the hodge podge of
old school boundaries of yore. Also, needless to say, ANY
memories you have AT ALL about that wonderful old mystery
school, I am sure would be a delight to read by us all.
Also
thanks to Tommy Case coming thru for us with a great start
on Gabe Meyer, and Bobby and Gary working away on their
lists for First Ward, if we can just some Sam Taylor input,
we're well on our way to covering all the old bases !
One
quick note. Take a look at this:
Sixth Avenue First Ward Gabe
Meyer Lakesid
The West
Twins The Roop Twins John and Ann
Lee Kenny & Gay Gardner
Becky and
Reggie Bill and Kay Price Becky
and Reggie also
It's like every elementary school ( no reports in from Sam
Taylor yet ) had been gifted with sets of twins.!! Are
there any twins I've omitted?? If not, then Sam Taylor will
be the sole school that's twinless !! )
Hames
Hames
and crew:
I
also wish Dewoody a speedy recovery and hope he is able to
return to Little Rock again this summer and see the Traveler
baseball team play again.
I will enter the fray on behalf of Sam Taylor and
make these observations.
We did go to school for only a half day in the first
and second grades. The principal at the school in 1948-1950
was Rodney Tillman. He now lives in Hot Springs. I
corresponded with him recently. The next principal was G.W
Buddy Turner whose wife was also the music teacher for the
elementary schools.
My fourth grade teacher was Mrs. Rhyne (maybe Ryan- I am
not sure) whose husband was the coach. I remember the
following students there:
Roby Mize- he went there some I know. I think he went to
several
Freddy
Tisdale- now deceased
James
Vaughan
Mary Ann
Sweeney
Shelby
Jean Dye- I think she lived at the Arsenal but I would not
swear to it.
Linda
Lee Bolding
William
Arthur Johnson
James
Bounds
Jerry
Buttram
Bobby
Davis- the son of Coach Davis
Richard
Fairchild
Lawrence
Gresham
Clyde
Caughman
Brothers
Bill and Bob Lapsley - not twins
Janette
Moran
Diane
Davis
JoBeth
Watts
Gloria
Mayfield
Diane
Schultz
Tommy
Fletcher
Wally
Peffercorn
Annie
King Chu Ko
Judy
Allen
Glenn
Huselton
Wayne
McGehee- i think
John
Nelson
Kenneth
Kesterson
Paul and
Johnny Green
Robert
Richey
Sandra
Mead
Sandra and Sue Meado
Eddie
Weeks
Don
Cahill
John
Bennie Landers
Tommy
Jaggers
Van
Browning
Janelle
Wester- i think
John
Billy McAllister
Otho
Merritt
Rickey
Ritchie
Jenny
Marie Vinson
Harold
Ellis
Sherry
Grumbles
Danny
Laminack
I am
100% CERTAIN ON SOME OF THE NAMES BUT I AM WILLING TO STAND
CORRECTED ON SOME.
Thus
endeth my trip down memory
lane.
Fred Ursery
This Round Robin of Wonderful Input has truly taken on a
life of its own. And it's produced its share of
revelations and serendipity, synchronicity, or whatever one
prefers to call it.
As some of you have probably noted, several of us made
reference to the man who was the longtime coach of The
Lakeside Bluejays, Denzel Bailey. He used to pull up
alongside the Lakeside playground and all the kids would
run up to his car. Lord only knows how many lives this
tireless man boosted ( and apparently he had a brother who
was doing similar volunteer work at Sam Taylor ).
Just as recently as last week when I had lunch with
Eddie McColgan and Ted Luft, two years behind us at
Lakeside, they brought some great old photos of the Bluejays,
and there was not only Denzel and the whole team, but Dick
Dewoody in his civies, no doubt having been chosen by ole
Denzel as the exemplar older student to be team youth coach.
Well, as you know Dick Dewoody, soon after, has been on
all our minds, and now, as fate would have it, when I was
putting up the newspapers at work, as I often do, I scanned
the PB obits and incredibly, my eyes fell upon a tiny dozen
word obituary,
Denzol ( sic ) Bailey, age 89
It's almost as if, after all the recent
cumulative positive thoughts and memories about the old
fella ( Ted had visited with him last year and made a point
to tell him how much he'd meant to everyone ) he decided it
was OK and timely to pass on to Heaven. ( Denzol always
called everybody " Podnuh " )
The
fact that the obit was so miniscule was saddening in a way.
Other than a mention of a daughter named Hercher, nary a
word about all the countless hours, days and years he had
put in so selflessly for all those kids.
I
recall some years back that Bill Rumker wrote a truly great
reminiscence of his Little League coach and I am ashamed to
say I've blanked out on his name ( I will try to forward
this to Bill, who I also think may've gone to First Ward and
can probably help Bobby and Gary by filling in some names
from his age group ! ) We can only hope that SOMEBODY who's
still in PB or elsewhere who recalls ole Denzol will do the
same for him ( Maybe the PBCommercial folks DID )
Also
there's been a lot of wonderful e-mails w/ good wishes and
prayers for Dewoody and thanks to Tommy Barton for his
updates. Wayne decided to go ahead on to the Moonpie
Festival representing himself and Dewoody in proud fashion I
am sure.
Bun Deweese called from La. to say how much he's been enjoying
the e-mails and to ask about Dick,( Ted, he mentioned how
much fun he and Leslie had at HSTC ), and also happily added
the following to our Sixth Avenue first hand recall : Bun
said he lived in a house on 5th and Cherry, now an insurance
office he said. He recalls that in his neighborhood and
attending Sixth Avenue were Jimmy and Jackie Harrod, Donald
White, and a fella first name of Buddy, . Bun attended Sixth
Avenue in First and Second, while Bill Stephenson attended
First thru Fourth before joining us at Lakeside. When Bun
moved back to PB he too was in the Lakeside district, living
in a duplex just off Main street, near Dewoody, TBarton,
Freddy Davis et al.
Bill meanwhile adds Bryan Eans and Walker Lewis
to the ranks of Sixth Avenue ( so maybe I am wrong about the
George Lewis at Lakeside being Walker...tho as we've noted
kids DID change neighborhoods !! Catherine adds Diane Heflin
( Roy's first wife ) there also.
The GREAT news on the lists front is, as hopefully you
all have received is Fred Ursery's championship list for
our, til now, biggest omission, Sam Taylor. YAY FREDDY !!!!
It is my hope to provide us with a Lists To Date for
ALL our elementary schools so far and then we can let our
memories roam more freely to other recollections of those
halcyon days of endless summers in ole PB.
Hames
PS
I mangled Buddy Mc Fadin's e-mail address, which I've
corrected above so please note. Also I noted one of ya'll
had added Lawrence Fikes which is great, as when we tackle
Annunciation Academy, Lawrence and Buddy can help immensely
( I think I have still have David Duffy's e-mail and did
have Scott McGeorge's, so hopefully we'll be able to do that
amazing school justice too ! ) Speaking of the Catholic
friends and classmates I note that Tommy Case listed Vic
Hiryak as possibly spending time at Gabe Meyer, which if so
would put Vic as an anomaly as I know he was born in Slovak,
a mostly Catholic community. But then Lawrence, myself,
George Lemen, Ronnie Roller (?) and others spent time at AA
tho we were all Protestants. What an amazing world we all
had back then and the memories all of you keep providing
just reinforces how blessed we were in so many ways. God
bless all of you and keep them e-mails comin' !
Hames
Have
been really enjoying looking over that great list that Fred
Ursery provided us for Sam Taylor. I guess it does turn out
that ST was the only elementary school sans Twins ( Anun.
Acad also ? ), but it's sure noteworthy to see that Sam
Taylor could boast the only Chinese American Pine Bluffian
school kid, so far at least,
And
that just serves to remind what a truly cosmopolitan, for
its size PB was back in those days. There were as I recall
it at least two Chinese American families in PB, each with
grocery/produce stores, one on Main St. and another I
believe on the East Side.
Greek
American families...the Makris family ( OK Dairy ), the
Zacks, the Priakos ( Rendezvous then Tommy's ) the Jiannis (
sp ) The Fakouris were Turkish, I believe. Loads of Italian
families and hopefully we can recall aplenty especially when
we start the Annunciation Academy lists !
And,
just as a " warding off early Alzheimers " ploy, I;m going
to now try to list as many Jewish Pine Bluff families as I
can recall. So here goes !
Gottliebs
Sterns
Fruhmans
Blau
Kahns
Cohens
Baers
Silbernagels
Altschul
( I think I will just use singular form from here on )
Banks
Eisenkramer
Mizell
Levy
Levine
Morris
Rosen
Rutstein
Rozensweig
Kastor
Fleischaker
and I'll
leave it there with our old classmate to allow others to add
their memories. What's a puzzler to some degree is that
with so many Jewish families in PB, nary a one of our
elementary school lists seem to have any of these kids
listed, unless Bobby was putting MHLevine at First Ward. I'm
pretty sure the Morrises and Rosens attended Anunc Academy
at least for a while ( someone please forward this to LFikes
who will know for sure ! )
And
yet, Gabe Meyer School itself was named after a prominent
local Pine Bluff Jewish Civil War hero !
Another puzzler: Look at our lists of twins: The Perrys, the
Roops, John and CLAIRE Lee ( Thanks to Tommy Case for
reminding me it was Claire not Ann ! ), The Wests, Bill &
Kay Price, Kenny and Gay Gardner, et al
ALL
these sets were in OUR class ! Were we the unique class for
twins ???
What
an interesting story it would make to hear how Daisy King
Chu Ko and her family came to settle in Pine Bluff and what
it must've been like for them. And as for all our Jewish
families, it was a moment for pause, when recently, Tommy
Barton related to me that just last year or so, the Temple
was shuttered, due to there only being a few families left
and apparently not sufficient to secure a Rabbi, and with
that closing all the years and years of history.
I was
fortunate to have been able to narrate a PBS special about
the disappearance of rural churches and yet as we all know
there are plenty of houses of worship that have been passed
by in the cities as well.
Rather than feel melancholy about all these things, I choose
to focus on the positive, and just recall, with all of you,
that in those days, for all its faults and flaws, Pine Bluff
enriched our young lives in so many ways.
Hames
Hames, your mind is a steel trap! It's amazing! One of our
first Chinese immigrant families began with Harry Sy Joe.
During the Great Depression, at age 12, Harry Sy Joe
immigrated from China with an adult uncle by way of Boston
Harbor. Harry's uncle found life too tough in America during
the depression and returned to China leaving a 12 year old
boy who spoke no English to find his way through America.
(What courage!) Somehow, someway Harry learned of a Chinese
family in Pine Bluff who ran a grocery store and offered him
a job.
Harry lived in the back of the store working when not
attending school.
He graduated from PBHS in 1945 and later traveled to
Mississippi to meet other Chinese immigrants where he met
his wife.
The rest is history. For years the Sy Joes ran a
successful Chinese Restaurant named appropriately, Sy Joe's.
The Sy Joe's oldest daughter graduated Summa Cum Laude from
UAMS and now heads the emergency center in an Alaskan
hospital. Is America a great country or what?
Bob Smithey
Gary we have covered football and basketball but have
omitted some of our track experiences. If you could see me
now you would understand why food comes to mind. After
funding the football athletic program apparently the funds
ran out at old PBHS. I remember on basketball trips if it
hadn't been for Lester Silbernagel we would have starved
since he paid for a lot of chicken fried steak dinners after
the games. He even funded our post season banquet and gave
us all a pair of red socks.
I remember Roy Murtishaw was so eager to eat the
real steak placed in front of him at the Plantation Embers
when he tried to stab it the steak slipped on his plate and
fell on the floor. Since a real steak dinner was a rare
experience back then, Roy picked it up, brushed it off,
placed it on his plate and started slinging elbows. Watching
ole'
Roy eat that steak wasn't so bad but listening to him
wore you out.
Now for the track trips. Absolutely no money was
provided for athlete meals following a track trip. If your
parents didn't have money to give you to run to a grocery
store sometime during the track meet you went hungry. After
the meet we had no time except to load onto the bus and head
home. The entrepreneurial sprit infected Taylor Eubank and
M. H. Levine. Taylor's Dad ran a grocery store so Taylor
procured bread, ham, mustard and small cartons of milk and
then enlisted the sandwich construction assistance of M. H.
They then iced all down in an ice chest and smuggled it onto
the bus and hid it under a blanket. After the track meet
anyone with any money was faced with a monopoly McDonalds
would have been proud. The price placed on those sandwiches
made with a skinny piece of ham and smeared lightly with
mustard would relate to the best steak dinner at Sonny
William's restaurant in Little Rock today. Taylor has been
retired from the FBI now for several years but I will always
suspect that his retirement has been supplemented by his
sandwich business investment income of years ago. A very
true story. Until next time my friend, God Bless.
Bob Smithey
Dewoody update: He must be feeling better this morning, he
is requesting that Maggie "get me out of this place".
Maggie is working with the nurses to try to get all of
Dick's medicines correct and working on his menus. What a
precious child!! We all would be proud.
Tommy Barton
Tommy what great news! Please give Dick a collective AT&T
hug from all of us. Since Dick has always been a "Manly sort
of a Guy", if he asks where the hugs came from tell him
Penny sent most of them.
Bob Smithey
Dick will be released from the hospital tomorrow after a
radiation treatment. He appeared to be in pretty good
spirits this evening, especially after the doctor's visit
and he learned that he would be released tomorrow. The only
negative, he told Dick that he cannot drive until his other
doctor gives him the okay.
Dick was also aware that he had missed one of his "bucket
list" trips.
Keep him
in your prayers.
Tommy Barton
Dewoody update: Well, Dick is not going home. His
condition has not changed since yesterday and Dick is
unhappy about the turn of events.
Maggie and the doctors are making decisions for his care and
treatment.
Will try to send an additional update later tonight.
Tommy Barton
Very sorry to hear this latest. It explains why I have not
been able to reach him by phone for about 3 weeks now. If
anyone talks to Dick, tell him he is in my prayers.
Ralph Rouse
What a beautiful email from a beautiful person asking our
prayers for Dick. I have been trying to reach Dick by phone
since I learned about all this. Being in Texas and often out
of touch, I knew Dick had health issues but never knew until
about a month ago how seriously ill he is.
This all started when I heard about Gary and sent an email
to several of you asking you to pray for Gary and Barbara,
his wife. Bobby Smithey having grown up with Gary
immediately joined me. At that time, I still did not know
the details on Dick until Hames told me. Put me down as
"praying for them both regularly ".
Ralph Rouse
Dewoody update: He was bathed and dressed to go home at
6:30 this evening and waiting for the doctor to come by and
release him. We are working on a project to move his
computer down stairs so I left and do not know if, in fact,
he made it home. I will know in the morning and let you
know.
Tommy Barton
Dewoody update: Dick made it home last night... I talked
with Weldon this morning and he said that "Dick was his old
self".. and was glad to be leaving the hospital. Dick and
Maggie were up when I delivered the PC desk but I did not
get a chance to visit.
Tommy Barton
Is
Dick Dewoody tough...or what? He was a Marine back in the
time of "Iron men and Wooden ships." The only thing more
powerful is prayer and I think it worked. Thanks for sharing
the good news Tommy.
Bob Smithey
George Lemen wrote to say how much he's been enjoying our
Round Robin. George says he attended Anun. Academy k-2
before going to Lakeside in the 3rd.( He beat me there by
one year. ) George says he lived at 1219 East 2nd when
attending A. Acad. and that Cookie Willis across the street
and one block west of Cookie Willis, which I am guessing
means we should add Cookie to the Sixth Avenue lists. That
makes perfect sense since she and the West twins and Cappy
have remained such close friends from all the way back then.
George also adds that another neighbor was D.J> King. George
was that Mary Anne's folks ?? I know she went to AA where
her mom was music teacher. At Lakeside, Mrs. Reasoner was
the first music teacher, followed by Mrs. Baxter, whose son
Jimmy was a student there too. Fred Ursery said Sam Taylor's
music teacher ( and probably married to Lakeside's first PE
instructor Rodney Ryan. )
This
poses the question: Did each Elementary schol then have its
own music teacher and were the PE instructors shared by ALL
the elementary schools as it appears??
Thanks to Tommy Case for at my urging sharing his wonderful
memories with the WHOLE group ( those of us who know that
Tommy would later become the consumate professional barber
in later life, thoroughly enjoyed his recapping his first "
professional " rendering on the head of Gabe Meyer classmate
Howard Glatstein !
A
favor I'd like to ask is that if possible, all who share
their wonderful memories, please don't confine them to just
sending to me, PLEASE copy to all of the above and please
also copy to any other of our PB growing up years friends as
well, as everyone seems to be enjoying these immensely and
there's just no way or time for me to re-copy to everyone,
and these are just too good not to share with the largest
number possible as they uplift us all, plus they keep us in
touch in a great way ! Thanks !
Bobby, Catherine writes that she recalls a Chinese Grocery
near the Worm Ranch, so maybe there were THREE, if my memory
is correct, about the one on Main AND one near East End. The
one there, somehow I recall being near what must surely have
been the only non Italian Shoe Store ( Pine Bluff must've
had the record for shoe stores back in our growing up years,
The Lupo brothers at different locations, Barbarotto, Tony
Sylvester's, and I think maybe Judy Rinchuso's dad, and I'll
bet others of you could add 2 or 3 more ! ) The shoe store
on East Side was a John Kaz or Kac was the way the last name
began, but as a kid it was unpronounceable or spell-able, so
the Kaz or Kac part is all I can recall.
Bobby, your relating of the Harry Sy Joe story was just
great !
Fred Ursery wrote about the famous architect Fay Jones conversing
about his own Gabe Meyer years and Fred said he was able to
recall the name of every teacher, tho of course he was a
generation before us. Also I got Annie King Chu Ko's name
right finally.!
Tom
Bellhouse wrote that before he was born his mom taught
school in PB, back when his dad first came to work for
Cottonbelt, and that Tom's mom actually taught Bill
Lafitte's dad, the famous footballer, " Foots" Lafitte !
Speaking of the Cottonbelt, my great grandad, BGGalligher
was the Cottonbelt doctor, and tho, it was long since
shuttered, do ya'll recall the old Cottonbelt hospital near
the shops ?? His son, my great uncle Met Galligher, was the
police chief in PB for many years, as George Lemen's grandad
was Fire Chief. Lots of fine members of both forces who
somehow helped us kids and families feel more secure back in
those days.
Well,
keep those great e-mails and memories comin' in, and if at
all possible copy to all, as every single one has been read
and appreciated by all when they get to see them.
Hames
One
of the major reasons I am so glad when folks e-mail to all
is that it saves me having to re-type every e-mail address
every time. Yes, I know, someone more proficient with the
computer, and not operating off a deadline of break times at
work, could make it all simpler, but, alas, for now, that is
my plight. SO, consequently, when I asked all of you to copy
to all listed, I, somehow, I omitted Bobby Smithey's e-mail
address ( please see and add from above ), plus I omitted
the last part of Dick Dewoody's e-mail address ( also please
see above and likewise add to your corrected and amended
listings ! ) Lemme know when you add a new name and I'll
make sure that new name gets added to our motley band !
And again, many, many thanks !
Hames
Gary one of my best friends is a guy named Robert Dill,
Marketing Vice President of Simmons Bank. In fact he is
Anne's immediate supervisor. However you know Anne. She
probably supervises Robert more than he her.
Years ago, 1976 to be exact, Anne spied a brand new yellow
Oldsmobile Toranodo with a tan vinyl roof on the show room
floor of Welch Motor Company and fell in love with a car. I
bought it for her and she kept it ten years until our
daughter, Adrianne, began to refer to it as "Old Yeller."
Well Robert had just bought a butt load of television
advertising from Dale Nicholson at KATV for Simmons Bank.
Dale then invites Robert and a friend (me) to come play golf
at Little rock Country Club. Well we did.
Robert and I arrived about 10:00 A M at LRCC and began the
round with a bloody mary. At lunch we have a burger and
another adult beverage. After the eighteen hole round we
adjourn to the men's grill for another adult beverage, or
two. We were having such a good time Dale calls his
television sales manager, T V anchors and sportscaster, Paul
Eells to join us at a place called One Eyed Jacks. After
several rounds of beverages, Dale closed the ticket. Robert
immediately opened it back up. My memory is not real clear
but I think this happened three or four times. Finally
around midnight Robert and I began our trip home. After all
the beverage consumption, my appetite was roaring so we
stopped at the Kentucky Fried Chicken place on Broadway near
Roosevelt Road. A pretty testy neighborhood at midnight.
Robert and I were the only two Caucasians ordering chicken
at this time of night and I had an extremely strong urge to
salvage two screaming kidneys. I hand Robert a ten dollar
bill and head to the "head". Now ten dollars worth of
chicken in 1976 was a bountiful amount of chicken. While I
am in the restroom an extremely inebriated African American
kept yelling at the waitress, over and over, "B_____H, where
are my G D chicken wings?" Well as I am coming out of the
rest room, the waitress is handing Robert ten dollars worth
of chicken and Robert is saying "Listen if there are any
chicken wings in here give them to this SOB!" That was cause
for me to place a strong hand on Robert's shoulder and to
instruct him "It's time for us to go."
While driving home (Robert is driving) we both are eating
chicken and throwing the bones in the back seat of Anne's
new car.
Since I had failed to advise Anne how late I would be, she
has called the Arkansas State Police asking that they locate
us. About two miles north of White hall a state trooper
pulls us over. He was called Big Ben because he stood
awfully tall and had a V shape from huge shoulders down to
a small waist. Big Ben walks up to Robert's window and asks
to see his driver license. Robert's actual retort "Yes sir
just let me get up off my knees and I will get them for
you." When Big Ben sees Robert's license he asks "Are you
Robert Dill with Simmons Bank?" Robert "yes sir." Big Ben "
I've been meaning to contact you and sell you tickets to the
Copper Bowl football game. Robert's answer " And I 've BEEN
MEANING TO BUY SOME!" Well that saved our bacon and we
creped on home.
P.
S. Anne has never forgiven me or Robert. True story.
Bob Smithey
Bob, that is absolutely priceless. You have such a flair
for the descriptive embellishment. I hope you are doing a
compilation of these unforgettable memoirs. I think you
ought to commit these to voice recording. I would certainly
be willing to underwrite a copy.
Seriously, I think someone should be collecting all these
stories from you and Ralph and Hames, and the others. I
have been printing them out, but I am hardly a good
archivist. Even though I never experienced these tales, I
can picture them through your vivid prose.
J M Blackwell
Hames: I am enjoying reading this round robin. I also am
glad to have these emails as a way to keep up with Dick’s
condition. I will plan a trip soon for sure.
I,
too, have fond memories of Denzel Bailey. I played center
and defensive end for the Bluejays. Great guy. I, too, am
sorry to see that his obituary was so inadequate. You and
the others are helping keep his memory alive. Re Arsenal
kids, I seem to remember a large kid named Blankenship, Don
I think. You mention Ted Luft. I think Leslie Luft was in
our class or perhaps one ahead. He also played in the
backfield for the Bluejays. At First Ward was a cute girl
named Donna Lynn Bell. Speaking of Dick and football, my
older son, Daniel graduated Rhodes College in 1995.
Somewhere, perhaps while visiting Daniel at Rhodes, I
learned that Dick played center for Southwestern at Memphis,
which was the original name of Rhodes. Teachers at Sixth
Avenue: Ms. Ouida Sanders (first grade), a Ms. Mathews (I
think). I think McArthur Wofford was at Sixth Avenue, also.
As for school boundaries, I can’t help much. When at Sixth
Avenue, I lived at 713 W. 5th; I could see the school from
my yard. I do remember AA, probably one of last such
schools taught by nuns in flowing black habits. Boundaries
were kind of strange sometimes. I remember a nice (really
big, shaving by the fourth grade) guy named Floyd Dodd. He
lived, I believe, way out but attended Sixth Avenue. I
recall that you, Dick, Tommy, and I came upon Floyd and a
cousin of his while at the country property that Dick’s
brother owned. (Where I shot the three birds one a time
before the others flew away). Has anybody mentioned Becky
Howell, fifth grade at Lakeside? She broke my heart by
moving away that year. Has anyone mentioned Becky Kavanaugh?
She lived on 28th, so I guess that she may have attended
Gabe Meyer. A grade behind us - and cute. Do you recall a
guy named Roundtree in Cub Scouts? Someone mentioned Jimmy
Harrod at Sixth Avenue. Harrod is a historical Kentucky
name – Boone compatriot. Which makes me think of a guy that
I knew when I was in 4th grade, although I am not sure that
he attended Sixth Avenue – Estill Allen. In KY, he would be
named for two East Kentucky counties, Estill and Allen.
Well, it appears that I should stop drinking before 11 pm
–my memories are getting pretty vague and pretty damned
weird. More later. Best regards,
Bill
Ya'll, here's a wonderful example of why I made my plea for
all to forward to all their e-mail reminiscences !
Now, I know why Bill Stephenson chose not to copy to all,
and that's because, because he moved away from Pine Bluff
after the ninth grade and assumes few people would even
remember him ( Bill was my next door neighbor for several
years. His gorgeous older sister, Cissie Manning, was a
cheerleader, I believe, and Bill had 4 other siblings
besides Cissie. ) But, Bill may not realize it fully, but
lots of us still recall that Bill came within just a few
votes of beating Roy Murtishaw to become student council
president and he was just a great all around guy, who, thru
no wish of his or Cissie's, their family moved, like so many
others, because their dad got transferred or had a better
job offer in another town or state. In Bill's case, they
moved to Shreveport and Bill went to Byrd High there,
changing his last name to Bowker, to honor his stepfather,
Dan Bowker, whose brother Bud was also a well known
footballer at PB of yore, I believe, like Lafitte's dad, "
Foots " Lafitte. Bill has always said that his years in Pine
Bluff meant and continue to mean more than any others of his
growing up memories.
And
below is an example. Bill's been gone from PB longer than
most of us, so some things may be more distant in his
recall, but since he married a PB girl, I can imagine that
they'll both be delighted to be a part.
So,
knowing how great it will be for everyone to receive the
benefit of others' memories like Bill's,, and knowing how
garbled my last long e-mail got due to time constraints et
al, , I have asked Tommy Case and Bob Smithey to co-ordinate
a Master List of all our mailees so far, which will save me
having to laboriously retype everyone's name every time I
send out a forward that's only come to my e-mail, ( and yes
I know there are simple ways of sending to all, but not when
I am limited to only occasional 15 minute break time
opportunities at work, where there's just no time to do the
prep work) Tommy and Bobby will make sure things get out to
all, except for those e-mails which somehow may not be meant
beyond the immediate reader, and in hope that our recalled
memories will stay in that range that makes them acceptable
to Marvin Blackwell's book on all of us, which we all know
Marvin has been working on while in the Witness Protection
Program !
Also
this is a real good time to re-cap the amazing
accomplishments of this Round Robin in its short time in
cyberspace:
LAKESIDE Elementary School: complete list of students our
age, taken directly from roll books by yours truly, and
alphabetized in Wayne's e-mail ( If you didn't receive this
and would like to please let Wayne know, ( see his email
address above ) and I'm sure he'll gladly forward along
While
on Lakeside, let me quickly add the teachers I recall: 4th
grade, Mrs. Page and Mrs. Tarver, 5th Grade
Mrs.
Cherry and Mrs. Roupe, 6th Grade Mrs. Thornton and Mrs.
Bryan. I leave it to Catherine, Auvergne, TBarton, TStone,
Ralph, Wayne, Dick, Bun, Bill et al to add the earlier grade
teachers. I forwarded the students list to David Finley and
Travis Mitchell for their older kid additions, and Eddie
McColgan and Ted Luft will hopefully fill in the younger
kids.
SAM
TAYLOR : See Fred Ursery's exhaustive list from memory and,
additions still coming in. Fred, could you test your
excellent recall on the teachers there ?!
GABE
MEYER : Tommy Case has done wonders in almost singlehandedly
piecing together his classmates.
Bobby Kientz is now helping Tommy and between them and
others to whom we may forward later, like Bill Lafitte,,
Milton Hughes et al Also would be nice to get some teachers
and principal.
FIRST
WARD : Bobby Smithey and Gary Shinall have been making First
Ward come alive in their memories, and if Bobby can find the
time by going back over his e-mails, can probably give us a
great list from First Ward
SIXTH
AVENUE : Still our least known school, but we've been
greatly helped by the fact that both Bill and Bun attended
early years there, and maybe Catherine can forward our plea
for help on to Cappy and the West twins, and Fred to Overton
ANNUNCIATION ACADEMY : This is one I, George Lemen,
Lawrence, et al can probably do a pretty good job on a
listing here, tho George left after 2nd and I after 3rd for
Lakeside.
So
lots to look foward to, and lots more to follow, God willin'
God bless you each and everyone !
Hames
Hey
Ya'll !
Please disregard any previous entreaties to
start sending to all when you e-mail ( including the plea I
tacked on below in the intro to Bill Bowker's great e-mail,
enclosed for all to enjoy.
The problem had been that due to time
constraints ( 15 minute break times at work,), I was
concerned that, with our amazingly growing numbers, I
wasn't getting everything out to everyone, plus garbling my
own attempts as well.
My
first thought had been to ask that everyone start copying to
everybody, until it sunk in that even those folks who were
already sending to all weren't sending to the same " to all
" list that others were. Plus anything that complicates a
simple joyful act has a tendency to kill incentive, which is
the opposite of what we are all doing.
The
only thing that made any sense then was to have a Master
List that would include all of our correct and updated
e-mail addresses, and a willing soul to make sure that that
list would receive all the forwards.
Tommy
Case, has graciously offered to, with Bobby Smithey's help,
put together such a list, so that now, each time anything
comes in, it can be shared with the whole group ( unless
otherwise designated )
So
please take a moment and check your address above and any
others I may have mangled, ( I've been mis-spelling Alltel
for who knows how long ! Now that won't be a problem anymore
), and let me know of any corrections or additions and I'll
pass along to Tommy and Bobby. Also if you know of anyone
who might like to also be receiving these, just let us know.
Since every single person who has responded has said how
much they've been enjoying this renewed contact and
opportunity to reminisce in positive ways about our growing
up years in Pine Bluff.( And this is sure borne out when
you see how quickly our numbers have grown! ), And never
losing sight of the original purpose that Ralph and Gary and
Bobby started it all with, let it also be said, that these
e-mails are providing an uplift to all and for some in
particular, who appreciate the opportunity to recall
simpler times and a place and time when summers never seemed
long enough and yet never seemed to end, at least in our
obviously vivid memories and recollections.
So
anyway, just go right back to your comfort level as far as
e-mailing is concerned. Keep 'em comin' and, God willin'
we'll keep 'em comin' along to you all. Thanks !
Hames
And
now, before we get to Bill Stephenson/Bowker's great e-mail,
here is my opportunity to try to tie up some loose ends ! Fred Ursery reminds me that Sam Taylor's music teacher was Mrs.
Turner, and that their PE Instructor, Rodney Ryan's wife,
was one of their teachers there at ST. ( I believe that
Rodney Ryan wound up teaching at U of A Fayetteville )
Again, it appears that each Elementary School had its own
music teacher, but that the PE Instructors were shared by
all ? Can any First Warders or Gabe Meyers add any thoughts
on that ? Also this brings the question as to whether Sixth
Avenue was able to muster enough Overton Andersons to have a
football team ?
Since we know that Denzol Bailey at Lakeside and his brother
at Sam Taylor , and as Tommy Case has told us, Cookie
Willis's dad at Gabe Meyer were volunteers, maybe those
elementary schools that weren't fortunate enough to have
such men to volunteer their services had to forego after
school team sports ?
Bill Rumker wrote that it was Ed Brown who was his Little League
Coach, and hopefully, Bill might share the beautiful tribute
he wrote some time.
In
my haste to write an intro below, I mistakenly gave Bill
more siblings than he had, and gave PB credit for Bill's
wife ( She's from LR and even tho her maiden name was
Whiteside, apparently there's no relation to Cappy Ware's LR
husband, also named Whiteside ) and his uncle Bud Bowker may
have played football in LR or Fayetteville instead of PB.
When I
was asking for help with PB's Shoe places, I meant of course
Shoe Repair shops, like the Lupo Bros. ( 2 different
locations ), Barbarotto's, Tony Sylvester's et al. And I
still am hoping someone can recall the non Italian shoe shop
on east end, whose long last name began with Kac or Kaz.....
Some
other Jewish families, Catherine adds the Goldbergs and I
believe Anetta's family was Goldberger. I recall Larry Hall,
I think it was who was going to marry Anetta.
Another name to add to the Lakeside rolls, along with
Bill's Becky Howell, , is Jim Borne. Jim was there briefly,
and then when he returned some years later, he was Jim
Patterson. Jim's late wife, the wonderful Gail Ragland,
explained how all that happened and I'll try to find her
e-mail of some years back.
Bill's also absolutely right in recalling that Floyd Dodd (
and his brother Havis? ) was shaving in the 4th grade !
That was at Lakeside. If he was shaving at Sixth Avenue
before then, he was older than even we at Lakeside thought
Bill mentions Jimmy Rountree. Where did Jimmy attend Elem.
school ? Also could the Buddy that Bun recalls in his Sixth
Avenue years be Buddy McGriff ?
And
it might be fun to occasionally our e-mails with a trivia
question so as to continue to ward off forgetfulness.
Here's
my starter. Name the only PB Movie Theater that NONE of us
ever got to see a movie in.
Well, that's enough to keep us busy for a while.
Thanks again !
Hames
Easy...
The Vester, behind the Strand on 2nd. I believe it was
named for "Vester" the matriarch of the Brown? or Perry?
Funeral Home in Pine Bluff!
Tommy Barton
Hames:
You
are a literal paragon of industry for squeezing all this
into 15 minute breaks. However, it is alright if you
confess to borrowing a little work time. I would never rat
you out. Well, unless there was some real money involved,
and then my true character would be revealed.
Keep up the great work. I had no idea that P.B. was such a
fascinatingly diverse community.
J M Blackwell
Dear
All,
Well, that astute detective J M
Blackwell is correct. Occasionally, I am granted more
computer time than usual, and happily, today is one of those
times !
First off, please note that the above mailing list is,
I hope and pray, as complete and error free as any so far.
So if you are of a mind to, and can, unlike me, copy and
paste it so that in future you can mail your sharing to all,
wonderful.( Wayne and Tommy, it
would be especially great if you two could, since your
updates of Dick Dewoody would
then reach all ) If not, I'll keep trying to forward what
you do send, to all, unless requested otherwise.
Some of the addresses may need clarifying: hhcjr is
Catherine, PPBurdeno is
Penny & Paul, alark is
Auvergne, Altoid is
TBellhouse, and I believe the
others are self explanatory.
Now, Hoorays are in order for Fred
Ursery's exhaustive lists of Sam Taylor, and
Bobby Smithey for his equally
amazing lists of First Ward. Both these were from memory (
unlike the Lakeside lists, which I had the good fortune to
copy directly from the old roll books long ago, and
Wayne alphabetized).
The unbeatable memory of Tommy
Barton cinched the Early PB Trivia Question. The only
movie theater none of us never saw a movie in was...The
Vester ! Tommy even adds that the name Vester came from the
matriarch of the black funeral home operation that also
owned the Vester, which most of you remember adjoined the
Strand ( Had David Finley been
on our list when that went out, he may've contradicted my
lead in, as david's Dad ran the projectors at a number of
theaters, so David may've gone with him if he ever was
called upon to show the movies at the Vester ! )
I don't know about ya'll, but I printed out both lists
and have been really enjoying reading back over all those
familiar names ( aside to Gary and
Barbara: Gary, your family must've had the record
number of family at First Ward ! You,
Brent, Lana, Lance, and cousin Kathy Shinall ! And
Bobby mentioned your aunt was also a teacher there ! ) Do
either of you know if First Ward is still being used as a
school ? I think Lakeside was turned into a Montessori
school ?
Fred Ursery also relayed
that during a lunch he and his wife were having with another
couple, the wife mentioned that she had been happily
attending Sixth Avenue, when with no explanation, boundaries
were altered and she was transferred to Sam Taylor.
When Fred told me this, I immediately began wondering
again, why a school already hurting for pupils, would bypass
the arsenal kids, and then start transferring students who
were already there ?!? Most of you are prob'ly already ahead
of my tortoise slow brain, but it FINALLY dawned on me, that
the best explanation is that, instead of looking to increase
its students, Sixth Avenue, even as far back as when we were
in school, must've been trying to PHASE IT OUT ! Unless
someone else tells us differently, that's the only
explanation that seems to make any sense. Wish we knew when
Sixth Avenue did actually close, and what became of it ?
Thanks again to Bobby Smithey
for solving my own dim recall of the name of the only non
Italian Shoe Repair store. Bobby says it was Albert Kraizig,
and his place was at sixth & Ohio in a triplex bldg. that
also housed Jimmy Smith's Grocery Store and Brewster's
Barber Shop. Thanks Bobby, I can picture that corner lots
more clearly now, and also rectify my faulty memory of there
being a Chinese Grocery there instead. I guess Catherine was
right, that the only other Chinese Grocery was near the Worm
Ranch ( Speaking of the Worm Ranch, do ya'll recall the old
White House Hotel nearby ? Was always kinda mysterious, but
that may've been for a reason )
George Lemen wrote to say
how much he was enjoying reading the recollecting, and added
a memory about his 3 years at Annunciation Academy. George
recalls that the nuns would insist that our lunchtime apples
be eaten down to the core, and even sometimes demand
evidence. George recalls one girl handing the over seeing
nun 3 seeds and a stem ! George lived those 3 years at 1219
E 2nd, near Cookie Willis and
D.J. King, and with my
eyesight, I thought I was seeing West 2nd and figured that
would put Cookie at Sixth Avenue, but as Bobby's list of
First Ward shows, Cookie was there, at least until
TCase's list puts her at Gabe
Meyer later on, when her dad coached their football team.
So obviously more of us kids moved around than we
may've remembered ( Roby Mize
may have the record. Roby was orphaned and lived with
various siblings, and even for a spell with
Travis Mitchell's family, and
prob'ly the Smitheys too, right Bobby ? )
Roby always reminded me a bit of
Dale Wyatt ( also orphaned I think, tho Dale once
explained it all, I alas have forgotten. I think Dale may've
also been related to Bobby Wyatt
and Jimmy Wyatt ?? )
Which brings up WHERE did Dale attend, since he's
missing so far from any of our Grade School Lists.
Likewise, somehow Larry Walker,
Jimmy Quinn, Jerry Mayer, the 3 musketeers, are
likewise so far not on any lists ( tho, with my eyesight I
may've just overlooked ) I'm guessing they turn up on
Tcase's & BKientz's still in
progress Gabe Meyer lists. Other names still missing off the
top of my head, Jimmy Roundtree,
Wesley Hargis, Catherine Ward ( First Ward addition ?
) et al
Speaking earlier of school boundaries, I believe I have
come up with the northern most Lakesider I can think of
Buddy Gibbs. Buddy lived at
either 8th & Walnut or 9th & Walnut. And I believe
Cappy Ware, who was in the
Sixth Avenue district lived on 7th. Therefore the dividing
line must've been 8th or 9th.
Well, I think that wraps up all the input so far. If
later time allows, maybe we can start compiling the kids at
Annunciation Academy, and hope that Buddy, Lawrence, and
David will be the mainstays in helping compile those lists,
which should be chock full of lots of names we all recall so
well, when they joined us in high school.
To close out this round with another trivia question from
our Growing Up Years :
NAME 6
DRUGSTORES FROM OUR GROWING UP YEARS ( Murray Hart Walgreens
not included. Too easy ! )
Thanks again to Ralph, Gary & Barbara & Bobby for
initiating this Round Robin and for all of you keeping it
going to all.
Your friend
always, Hames
First Ward is still listed as a public elementary school in
the local phone directory. Roby Mize never lived with the
Smithey family but he would have been a welcome addition.
With some of the antics Roby pulled in his youth, it would
have redirected some of the discipline Mr. Smithey
administered in our household. Lord knows I could have used
it.
Dad
(J.R. Smithey) was a projectionist for the Bonner family who
owned the Community Theatre. He worked there prior to
entering the U.S. Navy in 1937 and again during WW II. The
Bonner's also owned the Drive-In Movie on Dollarway Road.
The
cost of admission to a Republic Western Movie ( Roy Rogers,
Lash Larue, Hopalong Cassidy, Gene Autry, and others) on
week ends at the Community was ten cents. On Saturdays you
could go to the Saenger Theatre for the price of two empty
coke bottles. Jimmy Smith used to keep the empty coke
bottles behind his grocery store. The Roop twins used to go
behind the store and pick up enough empties, walk around
front and sell em' back to the store to get their money to
go to the movies. I tried it a couple of times. Scared the
bejeebies out of me when doing it especially when I saw the
Cummins Prison Farm workers cleaning out the ravine in our
neighborhood but it got me in the movies.
Times
were tough back then.
Dale Wyatt is an uncle to Bobby, Jimmy and Mary Ann Wyatt. I
am not sure but believe Dale attended Dollarway and White
Hall schools. Dale has taught journalism at White Hall for
many years. Dale was an above average pitcher in baseball
and outside shooter in basketball. He always seemed more
mature for his age.
Bob Smithey
Dear
Tommy and Bo,
This
e-mail just to thank you both for helping take the eyestrain
problem away for me !( I have another appointment with the
eye specialist next month ).
Since our e-mailers grew so quickly in numbers and others
asking to be added, it just makes sense to have an up-dated,
poof-read Master List so that anything I receive or write
can be immediately forwarded to Tommy, who will just press
Forward To All on his Master List, and that way everybody
will get everything, with the exception of those who don't
care to share with the whole group, or anything
you guys figure doesn't meet the G rating test, and I no
longer have to try to collate all the individual " All " lists or retype addresses each time.
As
to the Master List, I think between Bobby's list, my list
and Tommy's list, we've pretty much got it all covered.
Bobby has had Lawrence Fikes listed, so if Bobby thinks
Lawrence is OK with receiving the mailings,
I'd
suggest adding Lawrence to the Master list, and unless Buddy McFadin hollers " Stop " I would think he'd be a good one to
add, since he and Lawrence both went to AA and can help with
that list.
Another for sure example, with Bobby's input, is Gary Shinall. I purposely omitted Gary from the Dewoody health
updates, concerned that negative health stuff might not be
appropriate for Gary and his wife at this time. So Bobby,
could you please let Tommy know whether to put Gary on the
Master List to All, please, or just leave it that, since you
will be getting everything, you can decide if what comes
along is appropriate or not, and then you would forward on
to Gary.
Thanks !
Alan Blackwell has asked to be added to our mailings
:ablackw001@aol.com Alan asks us to be sure we get those
numerals in as numerals rather than letter " O's "
And
Tommy if you're doing names besides the more nebulous
e-mails ( Altoid=Bellhouse, PPBurdeno= Penny, HHCJR
=Catherine, et al, then I guess Alan would be a good one to
do that with as well ?
We
all 3 know that there are some names we'd love to add, but
for different reasons can't. A case in point for me is Roy.
I'd love to have sent several of our mailings to Roy, but
what always stopped me is that I know Roy is maintaining a
political blog and would automatically add all our e-mails
to his mailouts and that just wouldn't be fair to others.
But if anyone wanted to blind copy to Roy on their own and
didn't mind receiving his stuff, that's a whole 'nother
matter.
I've already sent our first trial e-mail to you both ( The
Bill Bowker one ) and after Tommy', Bobby, and I have OK'd
the Master Send To All list as best we can, Tommy that would
be the first one to go out under this new system.
It's ironic that, here, we three who are still working, have
wound up being the co-ordinators, but God provides
ministries in wondrous ways sometimes, and I am just
thankful we are being allowed to boost the morale or even
the day, with a growing number of our Growing Up Years
Friends !
Thank
you again !
Your friend, Hames
Hames my personal feeling is that Gary knows he is facing an
inevitable death as his body deteriorates and his wonderful
mind remains in tact. Gary has reached a stage where he is
almost non-communicative and totally dependent upon Barbara
feeding him any and all sources of information. No one will
know Gary and his daily spirit better than Barbara. Let us
continue to remember and communicate with him sharing all
facets of life and death while depending on Barbara to edit
the content. This gives Gary an opportunity to live until he
dies knowing that many care for him and without his
withdrawing into a shell until the end of this life on
earth.
Those are my thoughts but we would be remiss not to solicit
the thoughts of Ralph. For it is Ralph Rouse who began this
strong shoulder of communication for Gary and Barbara to
lean on during this difficult time. What are your thoughts
Ralph?
Bob Smithey
I
agree totally Bobby. I have called Barbara and shared
expressions with her of my caring and praying for Gary and
she has cried and laughed and expressed great appreciation
for the love expressed by our efforts to make their life
more meaningful at this time when they feel so very alone
facing this problem.
We
should let them know that we love them, and more importantly
GOD loves them and gave his only begotten Son for us all so
that we can accept Him as our personal Savior and when our
time comes we can go to be with Him and someday be with each
other again where there will be no pain or sorrow.
I have
total faith in His promise and am looking forward to that
day.
Ralph Rouse
Thank you for this reply Ralph. The one important question I
have never asked Gary, and simply made an assumption is,
"Are you a Christian?"
Have you discussed Gary's faith with him Ralph?
Ralph, you have done a wonderful thing by lending your
strength and support to both Gary and Barbara. Your
willingness to share and multiply words of encouragement and
hopefully email distractions of memories and humor have
been beneficial to many others. It provided a medium to
express our love and concern directed to Gary and Barbara
that has grown to include those same expressions of emotions
to many others.
I
have always followed your life with admiration as you
distinguished yourself first with feats of physical strength
followed by overcoming tremendous adversity. In the past and
today you are recognized as one of America's humanitarians
improving the lives of others.
Your strong Christian faith and life experiences remind me
of similarities of a man named Sampson with comparison
details in scripture.
Bob Smithey
Yes
I have and "YES" they are Christian's and they do believe
that we will be like HIM in the great bye and bye..
Bobby, your words are so kind. Thank you. You have such a
way with words and appreciate you so much. I talked to Larry
Walker the other day and he said he was going to call Gary
and share his faith with Gary also. Barbara has told me to
tell all of us that Gary really looks forward to our emails
and that she reads them and then reads them to him as she
has the time. She told me to tell you all that she wishes
she could answer them but time does not allow her to. She
says keep them coming.
She
says that things have grown more difficult because Gary's
respiratory system is under attack. He is having trouble
swallowing and he is having trouble breathing but does not
want to be put on a respirator. I asked her how she feels
about that decision and she said if it were her she would
make the same decision. I told her I respect such a very
personal decision. Then I went on to tell her to tell Gary
that in my eyes he is a bigger man than he ever has been and
to tell him with the advances in medicine and most
particularly some of the stem cell research going on, we
never know what next year may bring. The
Apostle Paul put it this way " I have fought a good fight, I
have finished my course, I have kept the faith...". Pray for
Gary and Dick and if you have the chance share your faith
and hope with them. God bless you all.
Ralph Rouse
THIS
CAME TO ME FROM BOBBY KIENTZ.
A
couple of days ago I was running (I use that term verrrry
loosely) on my treadmill, watching a DVD sermon by Louie
Giglio...and I was BLOWN AWAY! I want to share what I
learned....but I fear not being able to convey it as well as
I want. I will share anyway.
He
(Louie) was talking about how inconceivably BIG our God
is...how He spoke the universe into being...how He breathes
stars out of His mouth that are huge raging balls of
fire..., etc., etc. Then He went on to speak of how this
star-breathing, universe creating God ALSO knitted our human
bodies together with amazing detail and wonder. At this
point I am LOVING it (fascinating from a medical standpoint,
you know). ...and I was remembering how I was constantly
amazed during medical training as I learned more and more
about God's handiwork. I remember so many times
thinking...'How can ANYONE deny that a Creator did all of
this???'
Louie went on to talk about how we can trust that the God
who created all this, also has the power to hold it all
together when things seem to be falling apart...how our
loving Creator is also our sustainer.
And
then I lost my breath.
And it
wasn't just because I was running/walking on my treadmill,
either!!!
It was
because he started talking about laminin.
I knew
about laminin. Here is how wikipedia describes them :'Laminins
are a family of proteins that are an integral part of the
structural scaffolding of basement membranes in almost every
animal tissue.' You see....laminins are what hold us
together ...LITERALLY. They are cell adhesion molecules.
They are what holds one cell of our bodies ! to the n ext
cell. Without them, we would literally fall apart. And I
knew all this already. But what I didn't know is what
laminin LOOKED LIKE.
But
now I do. And I have thought about it a thousand times since
(already)....
Here is
what the structure of laminin looks like...AND THIS IS NOT a
'Christian portrayal' of it....if you look up laminin in any
scientific/medical piece of literature, this is what you
will see...
Now
tell me that our God is not the coolest!!! Amazing.
The glue
that holds us together....ALL of us....is in the shape of
the cross.
Immediately Colossians 1:15-17 comes to mind.
Ralph Rouse
This comes from David Duffy regarding emails that he has
read from me and Bobby Kientz. This all started with asking
classmates to pray for Gary Shinall (who is dealing with
ALS- Lou Gehrigs Disease) and his wife Barbara; and Dick
Dewoody who is dealing with brain cancer. Pray for these.
Ralph Rouse
Great to hear from old friends. These Emails to everyone are
just great. God bless G. Shinall and I have prayed for him
to help him in his suffering.
Bobby, you are right on about what holds us all together,
and if you read much about St. Paul who wrote to the
Colossians, you will find that this was a man much like us
who became an instrument of God. The reason that I
appreciate him so much is that he was a real sinner that
denounced Christ for so long. He was Saul and a persecutor
of Christians until he was knocked from his horse on his way
to kill Christians. Well the rest is history and very good
reading. He was renamed Paul by Christ and became one of the
most ardent followers.
God
bless you both and your families!!!
John Duffy
Gary I want you to know that I was selected to be a Hall
Monitor in the ninth grade. That meant I got to sit all
alone out in the hall (across from study hall) in a desk by
the boys bathroom to observe who came and went while taking
care of bodily functions. I saw this as future training
preparing me for a career for either shining shoes or
passing out hand towels in the men's room of a large hotel
some day.
Actually my job was to keep the peace in the halls as
teachers tried to teach in the classrooms. I remember
Civics, First Year Algebra and Latin II normally kept my
head down. The one thing I remember about Latin was "Ubi Ubi,
Sub Ubi"
Translated that meant " Where oh where is my underwear?" Oh
yeah, I also remember " Amo te." Translated "I love you." I
always tried to use that one on the girls however you
remember not a lot of the girls in the East End of Pine
Bluff spoke Latin.
Remember H. A. Taylor? He was Carolyn Lynn Taylor's older
brother. Mean little bugger. H. A. was a monitor picking up
absentee slips from all the classes. When he got to the John
Allen Building, he would peek around the corner catching me
deep in an Algebra or Latin lesson. He would then sneak up
on me and literally stomp the fool out of my foot. I
obviously let out a Confederate Yell that any soldier would
be proud and teachers all down the halls would open doors to
see what was wrong. By this time H. A. was long gone. Now a
bright kid would have caught on to this program but it took
several painful stomps for me to become fully alert.
H.A.
distinguished himself in Viet Nam and later became a Circuit
Judge. I always wondered how that mean little rascal
dispensed justice. However he turned out to be a pretty good
judge. He quit stomping feet and just put chains around the
ankles of some who appeared in his courtroom.
Until next time we pray for you to have a good day today.
God Bless my friend.
Bob Smithey
Another great classic from one of the finest storytellers.
What characters peopled you early years.
James Blackwell
Hames ol' friend, it would seem that several have compiled a
list of some of our classmates now, but if you still need
assistance let me know. I did add a few names here on the Cc
that probably haven't been there before: John Lee, Joe
Sturdivant, and Jim Vontungeln.
It's sad to hear about some of the health issues some are
having, but I do believe in the power of prayer, and join in
asking for God's merciful hand where it's needed.
I
do enjoy reading those memories that some have written
about. Pine Bluff was a great place to "grow-up"...and I use
that word lightly : )
Later,
Tommy Case
Yes, I noticed that peoples lists did not list the person(s)
they were sending their list to. Tommy, it looks like your
list does include those of us you shared this email with. So
can we say that those listed in the "To" section of your
email is a master list of everyone who have expressed
interest in receiving our emails? How about it Case, Ware
and Barton?
Ralph Rouse
Hi Hames,
I'm copying this to the whole list, 'cause it contains gifts
for the whole list!
Getting to be our age seems to bring lots of thoughts and
conversations about mortality, as present and former
friends, lovers and spouses go to the Light and leave us
here. As recent emails show, we increasingly rely on our
faiths, whatever they be, to help explain the inexplicable,
to calm our fears and to ease our losses.
A
couple of years ago, I was able to replace an incredibly
rare, long-lost 45 record. (Remember 45's with the big
hole?) Had to buy it in England and have it transposed onto
CD. Anyway, it's a gospel song by Little Richard, who had
had a rather schizophrenic career going between gospel and
rock. I'm appending it here for your enjoyment, along with
the flip side -- a heck of a gospel Rock & Roll song called
"He Got What He Wanted (But He Lost What He Had.) They're
.mp3's and should work with any player.
Enjoy!
Tom Bellhouse
Gary I quickly pieced some memories together to see if they
jar your memory. As a sophomore I remember playing tailback
in football because every time I got up off the bench, Coach
would holler "Smithey get your tailback here!" Of course
you, Joe D Ratliff, Clayton McCaskill and a handful of
others got to see action due to your God given athletic
gifts.
Here's hoping with a sincere prayer that this day will be
good for both you and Barbara. God Bless my friend.
Saturday Morning
Movies at the Saenger, Matinees at the Malco, Strand, Alamo
or Community. Swimming lessons at the Boys Club for
Tadpoles, Goldfish, Beginners, Swordfish and Sailfish,
Sneaking in Eden Park to swim at night, Holding your breath
while passing the cemetery, Cotillion dances, Little League
Ball Games at Eighth and Oak, Flat top haircuts for boys,
ponytail hairdos for girls, fear of Mrs. Poindexter, The
Truant Officer, marshmallow and weenie roasts at Oakland
Park, The very fowl smelling and very large alligator at
Oakland Park, miniature golf and train ride at Oakland Park,
Drive-in Movies at the Pine Bluff Drive-In, Zebra Drive-In
and Pines Drive-In, Looking at Trains at the train depot,
drinking an ice cold AAA Root beer in July on Main Street or
Roosevelt Road, working up courage to talk to teen age
girls, learning how to kiss a girl and breathe through your
nose simultaneously, going steady, carving your name in a
wooden booth at Teen Town, taking dance lessons from Mrs.
May or Mrs. Hart, trying to make your hands quit sweating
while talking to girls, watching slow trains go through
downtown Pine Bluff, sliding down the levee on a cardboard
box sitting on wax paper, excitement or disappointment in
making, or not making, a Little League Ball team and the All
Star Team, Friday night football games at Jordan Stadium
with family and friends, Watching the AIC Basketball
Championship Tournaments held at McFadden Field House,
drinking coffee or a coke at the Coffee Cup on Main Street,
swimming and boating at Atkins Lake, getting your first
family car, television and air conditioned home, walking a
lot wherever you went without parents and sometimes with
them, drive-in waitresses at the Rendevous on Main, a steak
from Tommy’s on Poplar Street, your first taste of pizza
wherever, jumbo hamburgers, circling the Chicken Basket on
Blake Street, getting a paper route and buying a scooter or
motor bike then meeting at Buddy’s Cycle Shop to enjoy the
smell of gasoline while looking at other bikes, going to
Matthews Hardware to look at Christmas toys, going to a
dentist in the National or Simmons Buildings, leaving your
house unlocked, walking in groups in your neighborhood
(unsupervised) when trick-or-treating, lunch burgers at the
Zebra Stall, Walgreen’s on Cherry , Snack N’ Sack on 28th
and Atkinson’s Café on Main, the aroma of two paper mills on
an overcast day, pointing a finger at someone when first
smelling the paper mill, saying “pull my finger”, girls
watching boys and boys watching girls in senior high study
hall, athletic and band trips on a bus, blue jeans and white
tee shirts, poodle skirts, Twerp Season, sitting on the
Confederate statute before the morning or afternoon bell
rang, getting up the nerve to ask someone for a date, going
to John Noah’s Restaurant or the Wonderland Café for pie and
coffee after church on Wednesday evenings, daring someone,
double daring someone, dying of fright in speech class,
buying school clothes at Baim’s, Penny’s, Cohen’s and shoes
at Rosenweigs (while watching the basket overhead deliver
your receipt for payment) enjoying watching the stationary
Indian Head signal on television when nothing else was on,
listening to KCLA, KOTN and KPBA radio stations, remember
seeing Sixth Avenue when it was a brick street, recalling
the Community Chest instead of the United Way, dragging Main
and later dragging Cherry Street, reading Classic Comic
books instead of the lengthy novel and then writing a book
report, getting a book of blank prescriptions while at the
doctor’s office to later write your own sick excuses, trying
to teach Coach Marcus Kaufman that there was a difference
between pain and injury such as a broken bone, surviving
football two-a-day practices after taking salt tablets and
being denied water for several hours, getting your name off
the SICK, LAME AND LAZY BOARD in football, wondering what
the girls will think when they first see your legs on the
basketball court ….As the Statler Brothers keep singing; “
Do You Remember Those?”
Bob Smithey
A
day does not pass by without me thinking of and praying for
you Gary. You have been one of those people from my past
that I have always really cared about even though we never
really spent a lot of time together. Perhaps because I have
lived with a severe disability for the past 45 years, I have
a very special empathy for what you are facing and
admiration for you and your wife and loved ones. The only
way I know to make you smile is to share an occasional
picture of my new grandson who is the "apple of my eye". He
and his single mother, Deana, live with my wife and me and
he cheers me up every day for this first year of his life.
Therefore, Keegan Dean is waving at you old friend.
Ralph Rouse
I
wanted all of you to have this from Gary and Barbara, and
Also remember that Dick has a daughter. We need to pray for
all of them. Even though they are going through an
unimaginably difficult time, we all need to remember that
God is love. Please take time to read with me some very
familiar verses in God's Word (John 3:14-18, with special
emphasis on John 3:16 and 17). That we may be together again
in that great reunion day.
Ralph Rouse
July 10, 2008
Hi,
Ralph,
This is Barbara, Gary's wife. Gary has lost the use of
his arms and hands and cannot reply to your email.
He asked that I send you a response and to let you
know how much he appreciates your email, kind
thoughts and prayers. He always spoke so kindly of
you when we talked about our growing up in Arkansas.
Keegan is a precious child and
Gary wanted to make sure that I sent you pictures
of our
grandchildren as well. We have a daughter, Karla,
and a son, Alex. Alex and his wife have no children
so these two are the apple of our eyes.
The ALS is progressing and Gary is very weak. He can
speak but is very difficult to understand. He can
walk only with me holding his hands for support
(walking backwards) and he is starting to use a
wheelchair more often now. He has lost about 40+
pounds but still is as handsome and bright as ever!!
Keep in touch with us; Gary loves for me to read your
emails to him.
Here are some pictures of our grandchildren, Max and
Sarah Macik.
Barbara
Shinall
This is
a message I got from Gary after the 45th reunion and before
he got his diagnosis of Lou Gerhigs Disease.
Ralph Rouse
Ralph,
It's good to here from you. I hope you and all of your
family are doing well. I did go to the reunion and it was
great to see all the people that I haven't seen since high
school. Although you were not there, you were were the topic
of several discussions that I recall. Maybe I'll get to see
you next time. Take care of yourself.
Gary Shinall
Gary, I am sorry that I was unable to make the 45th reunion.
I really wanted to see you. I saw you on the website
pictures and you look great. Hope you and your family are
doing well. Hope to see you at the 50th PBHS Reunion if not
before. GOD BLESS old friend.
Ralph Rouse
I
wanted to pass on that I called for Ricky Riley yesterday
about a business deal we are working and found him in Destin
eating lunch with Dick, Wayne Matthews and Darrell
McCauley. I asked Rick to pass on again that we are all
thinking of Dick.
Thomas S. Stone
Hello
Everyone,
This is Barbara, Gary's wife. Gary was admitted to the
hospital on Tuesday night. He has been having complications
and is not doing well today. I wanted to let you all know
that I do not think he will be with us much longer,
therefore, I am asking for your thoughts and prayers.
I
will keep in touch.
Barbara Shinall
It's great to have the opportunity to spend a little more
time than usual, so hope to take advantage of it and cover
more ground, backtracking long enough to say again, what an
uplift this round robin of old friends has provided.
It all began when Ralph Rouse, searching for ways to
offer encouragement for Gary Shinall, who has been bravely
struggling with the effects of Lou Gehrig's, came up with
the idea that e-mails from various friends, would not only
be an encouragement, but a welcome distraction and pleasant
diversion.
Bobby Smithey cemented it all, when his e-mails quickly
followed, regaling Gary and his loving wife Barbara with
wonderful e-mails reminiscing about their childhood growing
up years at First Ward and their East End Adventures. ( Any
of you new to this Round Robin should immediately solicit
forwards from those who've been fortunate enough to be
receiving Bobby's priceless reminiscences ! )
From Ralph and Bobby, the list of e-mailers steadily
began growing, and Bobby's First Ward memories, inspired
similar role calls and memories from others re Lakeside, Sam
Taylor, Gabe Meyer, and even the least known of all, Sixth
Avenue. Bobby put together, from memory, a list of all the
First Ward kids & teachers, Fred Ursery did the same for Sam
Taylor, Tommy Case and Bobby Kientz are working on Gabe
Meyer, and Lakeside got boosted by Wayne's presence of mind
of having saved the Lakeside lists I'd compiled years back
directly from the old roll books. Even the mysterious Sixth
Avenue got a little more of its mystery removed, when Bill
and Bun shared their recall of the first few grades they
attended there. ( by the way, did you two realize you lived
a block from each other ??!! )
And now to top it all off, Buddy Mcfadin has agreed to
plumb that great memory of his and get us rolling with the
Annunciation Academy ! Tho I was only there half the time
Buddy was, going over to Lakeside in the 4th, I'll try to
end this marathon e-mail, with my list from memory ( not yet
having seen Buddy's maybe, our two will be added to by David
and Lawrence, and then passed along to Scott McGeorge, who,
when I asked him at Kearney Gunti's funeral if he could
recall the names of the nun/teachers there, rattled off
every single one grade by grade, without blinking an eye !
Anyway, the e-mails obviously continued to snowball, and
Dick Dewoody was added to the get well prayers,( it was
great to hear via TStone that Dick had recovered well enough
to be enjoying Destin with Wayne, RRiley et al ! ) and no
doubt there are others benefitting from it all on many
levels, all thanks to Ralph and Gary and Bobby and all those
who immediately got into the spirit of it all and provided
uplifting pleasant diversions for us all.
From Barbara's last e-mail it appears Gary has reached
a point of hospitalization, but Barbara has continued to
read everyone's e-mails to him, and she has said they have
meant a lot all along the way.
The fact is they have come to mean a lot to a number of
others, judging from all the positive responses.
Everybody got into the spirit of fun. Tom Bellhouse
provided us all with one of the greatest Gospel songs ever
recorded. And Tommy Barton won the first PB Growing Up Years
Trivia question,
" What was the only movie theater none of us ever saw a
movie in ? " Answer: The Vester ( Somebody suggested we
maybe could've also listed The Alamo, but Catherine swears
her dad used to take her there often. Bucky recalls it was
way out on Sixth, so maybe some of you got to go there too
and have some memories of The Alamo to share ! )
The second trivia question was " Name 6 PB Drugstores
From Our Growing Up Years " not counting
Murray Hart Walgreens ( too easy ), but that too was
quickly nailed, this time by Fred Ursery, who listed
Conery's
Bobbitt & Dancy
Spillyard'sCherry Street ( across from the old Davis
Hospital )Central Pharmacy
Rexall
Bobbitt & Dancy's were on the west side of North main,
and that reminded me of another that was nearly a block down
and across the street, Collier's Drug Store, which I think
became Reed Collier's.
I seem to recall that both Marsha Rosen's dad and
brother, Robert worked there as pharmacists. and we're
prob'ly leaving lots of others out ??
And mentioning Marsha Rosen's name, God rest her soul, seems
a natural lead in to a stream of consciousness recall of
kids at Annunciation Academy, during the short time I was
there, because Marsha was there too.
Along
with: Here Goes :
Paul Davidson
Buddy McFadin
George Lemen
Bob Jones
David Duffy
Scott McGeorge
Lawrence Fikes
Paul
Davidson
David
Cranston
Ronnie
Roller
Louis
Massanelli
Jack
Turchi
Tommy
Turchi
Bobby
Conery
Charles
Okle
Jim
Bradford
Bobby
Ritchey
Mary
Anne King
Diane
Carlson,
Sharon
Culpepper ( a year behind us ? )
Kay
Crossett
Peggy
Forest
Varga
Szabo
Pauline
Magnini
Judy
Rinchuso
Nancy
Fratesi
Judy
Fratesi
Eunetta
Mustachia
Judy
Bimm
Carolyn
Laub
Pauletta
Krivolavek
and from
other classes Kearney Gunti, Hugh Burnett, Ned Tomboli,
Caesar Massanelli, Jim Shugart, Harriet Bullock,
Ann Terry,
Well, that's pretty good for having left after the
third grade, hunh? ( I purposely omitted kindergarten
attendees as they were so numerous ! ) Buddy, Lawrence,
David & Scott, your turn !!!
Closing with a two choice PB EARLY TRIVIA questions:
(1 ) Along with the Annunciation Academy kindergarten, there
was another kindergarten that existed in those early days.
Anybody remember or attend it ?
( 2 ) With all the soft drink items for sale these
days, it may be hard to recall just how varied the soft
drinks WE all had back then...Sundrop, B-1, Nehi varities,
Barq's, Nugrape, Grapette, Orange Crush....and please add
your own favorites ! But the trivia question is: Pine Bluff,
like many other communities, had their own soft drink
company, which turned out a variety of flavors under the
name....???
And lastly, but certainly not least, in mentioning so
many unsung heroes up in the long ago first paragraph, it
seems apt to let the closing paragraph, sing the praises and
remind us all of the fella who has quietly and graciously
been providing our class's fantastic website all these
years. Jerry Cathcart ! Just in case you haven't visited
ADMIN@Classof61.net recently, you should. There you will see
a labor of love, primarily created and maintained by our
beloved classmate Jerry, mostly at his own expense, and
garnering the praise and envy of every other senior class
out there. It truly is a work of art and a labor of love.
Sure hope all will join me in thanking Jerry for his lasting
gift to us all, and TCase, I sure hope you'll check Jerry's
e-mail address above to make sure he too has been getting
all these e-mails !!! And please add forwards to the several
new names time has not allowed me to add to our original
mailings ! Thanks to all you Master List Compilers &
Forwarders !
And now, after this, a respite to follow, as the Eye
Doctor has been hollering Cease & Desist. But will be
looking ( I hope ! ) for all that follows. Thanks and God
bless you all.
Your friend
always, Hames
Ham:
You made
up that Vargp Szabo name !
Tommy Stone
The
CocaCola Bottling Plant was the plant I remember. I worked
there the two summers after HS. It was owned by Mr. Ferd
Bellingraf that lived in the big house with the lake on HW
65 going to Little Rock.
George W. Lemen
Doug's Bottling Company, owned by Doug McClellan (not sure
about spelling) Mae McClellan was a friend of Robin's
Grandmother. Dewoody's house was on the other side of the
ravine from Doug's. and the old McClellan was on 22nd and
Alabama. The old brick yard was behind the fenced block
that the house sat on and Freddie Davis and I had the good
fortune to have woods, trails, a pond, etc to play. Plus
the ravine.. I suspect that every kid that ever lived or
played near the ravine, has fallen into it.
Tommy Barton
I
don't remember ever knowing anyone who went to 6th Avenue,
but it was only a couple of blocks from the Academy and
there were a lot of kids there. The playground was always
full at recess.
My grandmother lived at 5th and Mulberry and the
Alamo was about 4 or 5 blocks from there, in what we would
call a little shopping center today. As I recall there were
several businesses there and I had a cousin who would take
me to the Alamo quite often. I think I cried through The
Song of the South (which has been banned) about three times.
Two coke bottles would get you in and it was the first place
that I ever ate Milk Duds. I was about 6, 7, or 8 years old,
and a haircut costs a quarter. Also, KOTN radio was there as
well.
John Duffy
All:
Gary is still in Hospice; though he
is not doing well, he is still with us.
I am sorry that you all heard
erroneous information. I will try to keep you posted as to
how Gary is doing.
Barbara Shinall
Hey Gary,
Barbara has updated us on you. I just want you to know
that we are all praying real hard for you. You are a bigger
man in my eyes than you have ever been and I want you to
know God loves you and we love you. Ralph Rouse
July 17,
2008
Gary peacefully passed away last night. He fought
the hard battle against ALS but was very ill and
exhausted. His memorial will be Sunday, July 20th at
3:00 PM at the Chapel of the Forest:
Klein Funeral
Home
14711 FM 1488
Magnolia, Texas 77354
281-252-3428
Please keep
us in your prayers and thank you so much for keeping
in touch with us during this most difficult time.
Barbara
Barbara we deeply regret receiving this information but
thank you for it. Many times the statement is trite but
please know that anyone on this email list will do anything
to help you and your family at this difficult time. If you
think of anything, just let any of us know.
Because I grew up with Gary and even though we later
rarely visited, I am like so many who feel as if I have lost
a family member.
It has helped me in the grieving process to write a
small summary of what I knew of Gary's life included with
this email. We all extend our love and prayers at this
difficult time.
Wow, what a beautiful testimonial of Gary's life. Bobby grew
up with Gary in his neighborhood and knew him much better
than me. All I know about Gary was that he was all the
things Bobby described and that every experience I had with
him caused me to admire his humility more than all of the
rest of his gifts and especially because he was blessed with
all of the rest that Bobby so eloquently describes. When I
heard that Gary had been diagnosed with this terrible
condition, it really shook me to my core. I guess because I
have lived with a disability all my adult life, I felt led
of God to solicit assistance in attempting to in some small
way bring some distraction to the ravages that I knew Gary
and Barbara were going through. Bobby and others really did
a great job of doing that.
I am so very thankful for having known Gary and for getting
to know Barbara through this time when he and she have shown
me what courage under fire really looks like. Most of all, I
am thankful to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for welcoming
Gary into His arms where Gary will be with Him and like Him
because Gary accepted Him as his personal Savior. The
promise that Barbara and I and others of us will see Jesus
and Gary again in the great bye and bye is something that we
have to look forward to.
Barbara, you have been a rock to Gary through this dreadful
experience and I greive with you and your family, but I also
celebrate Gary's life well lived and know that he has just
now really begun to Live in the presence of our Lord for
Eternity.
Ralph
Rouse
Hello,
I have known many of you through the stories I have
heard from my brothers...
Loosing a father at five years old was very hard. One
thing I could always count on however was my brothers
Brent and Gary.... they both are very special to me and
helped me growing up in their own ways.
Reading Bob's email is exactly how I saw Gary...he was
a super hero...He was something I could hope to ever
be..He was there to lift me up at 5 years old so I could
see my father when he died...he was there when I broke
my leg playing for the "Deamons" of 1st ward (playing
for Dewey Freeman), he was why Ray Marshall picked me
for Optomist Little League Baseball when I tried out and
did not catch one ball on tryouts (Mr Marshall knew my
brothers so he took a chance with me). Gary was there
when I stayed out after dark. In this case I wish he
would not have been there because I was spanked...He was
the one I would watch punt the football so high at
Hutson Park and wonder if I could ever do that...He was
a Zebra, He was the one who had the cool 62 T Bird...He
was te one who loved music and knew how to build those
speakers..(which I have a pair
www.shinallandcompany.com ), he was the one I
visited when in college, he was the one who always
challenged me with arm wrestling matches, he was a
Arkansas Razorback...He was a All American,
I will miss him dearly!
Check out the web site below. When you get there, click
on search and type in Shinall for the last name. Gary's
name pops up... I had to dig to find this site. It
indicates that his name may be published in "Teen
Magazine". I'm guessing Dec 1960 (thats when the all
american teams came out).
Some of his Gary's class mates in 1960 are Joe
Namath, Dick Butkus, Lance Rentzel, Gale Sayers,
and many others. Gary was the only all american
from Ark in 1960 and there was only 83 all americans
from ark from 1947 to 1972. Only 4 all americans
came from Pine Bluff in the same time period. They
are listed below.
Shinall, Gary
Full Back (FB)
17
6ft. 2in. /
198lbs
Pine Bluff, AR
Pine Bluff
TM (1960)
Norwood, Gordon
Quarterback (QB)
6ft. 2in. /
190lbs
Pine Bluff, AR
SS (1963)
Barnes, James
Ends (E)
6ft. 3in. /
195lbs
Pine Bluff, AR
SS (1963)
Kennedy, Bill
Int. Line (Int.
Line)
6ft. 1in. /
200lbs
Pine Bluff, AR
SS (1968)
The "about us" link on the page says
this which is what I will always
remember...especially the first sentence....this
says it all:
This
site is dedicated to the high school football players
considered the best of their time. All-Americans.
What a wonderful and varied bunch the class of '61 has
turned out to be! Not in achievements, but in "heart."
The concern, messages and and prayers for our classmates
and their families, the work done by many to maintain
lists and websites, and now Smithey's beautiful
tribute. Thank you all, for bringing this together.
I came to PBHS in the 10th grade, so my connections are
less vintage than many of y'all's and mostly bear on
being a high schooler. So, Free Association Time, in
the spirit of Bobby's earlier note, I remember ...
The Midget, where both Burnett and I could get away
with being an older "Tony Marchetti."
Walking two blocks to visit Gail Ragland, my first
crush.
Mrs. Holmes' Boarding House, with some of the best
artery-clogging food on the planet, and all you could
eat.
Bucky and I having twin VW Bugs.
Learning to play snooker at The Stag, and later
learning pool from Buddy Hankin's father "Dutch"
Hankins.
The World's Best Cheeseburger, made by a fellow named
Baker at his pool hall downtown. Baker's was a black
place, so you had to sort of slip in there, but he sure
knew how to fry a burger.
Hanging at Hames' house. Yeah, that Holly guy is
pretty good.
Richard Brinsley Sheridan "Scrubby" Watson, one of the
most interesting people I have had the pleasure (and
terror) of knowing. (Listen to Romanian Rhapsody
sometime and ask yourself how high schoolers could play
something like that, and play it well.) And then I
remember Alva Appling, a really good person.
The Hauber Apartments.
Herb Dunning and his hobby shop.
Listening to "Buzz" Bennett on the radio, and later,
our own DJ Hames.
Going parking and listening to WLAC from Nashville,
featuring "Big Hugh Baby" and an introduction to the
Blues (then called "race music") Later, I heard it on
the X.
Sitting ringside at the forbidden Rainbow Club at
midnight with Jimmy Thompson and watching B.B.King an
arm's length away.
Listening to Jimmy McKissick play piano at the
Club on Friday nights while we feasted on
all-you-could-eat shrimp. (When last heard from, Jimmy
was playing in the south of France during the season and
in Singapore at Raffles the rest of the year. He's
played Carnagie Hall and had a movie made about him. )
Good times, good years, but more important, good
people. I think we've all turned out -- interesting!
Love and best wishes to all,
Tom
Bellhouse (still Tommy to you.)
Subject: High School Football Memories
A photo taken in 1958-59 football season shows several
stalwart players and one skinny kid at the right end
with legs so thin he couldn't even fill out his uniform.
We all remember Gary's unusual size and good looks. Two
years later he would make All-State and All-Southern as
a senior. Ashley was a pretty good size fellow but
notice he had some growing to do to catch up with a
taller and larger Gary.
M. H. Levine was an end, much heavier and larger than
me and the guy Coach Kaufman always chose to have me
block in Practice. M. H. actually played the second half
of the Camden High game with a broken leg! M. H. came to
the sidelines complaining of pain in his leg and Coach
Kaufman spoke some words of encouragement to him that
put him back in the game.
In the picture notice the grin on M.H.'s face. He knew
shortly I would once again be assigned the task of
trying to block him.
The hand injury the paper referred were broken bones in
my left hand where a tackle on an opposing player took
place at a premium price.
Also enclosed is a photo of the First Ward Demon team
of 1954. Gary was ill and not in this photo. He was
replaced with quarterback, Buddy Hendrix. Please notice
the slightly turned sideways # 22 with crew cut and
glaring football stare.
Also are news clips provided describing athletic feats
of folks all over the city.
The photos and news clips provided by Ashley Adams.
Thanks for the memories Ashley.
P. S. After receiving news of Gary's death I removed
his email from this mailing. I spoke with Lois Bailey,
Gary's Mother today. Lois is disoriented and while aware
of Gary's passing was unsure about Lance's or Brent's
address. Lois did advise that Brent is not well,
confined to a wheelchair unable to walk. Lois was unsure
of final arrangements for Gary but grateful for all our
concern.
Bobby
Smithey
Bobby ! These are just GREAT !
Hames
Ware
I was
schooled by Lance. I was totally unaware that Gary made
the High School All American team but fully understand
why he did. Did you notice the outstanding group he was
associated? Joe Namath, Dick Butkis, Gale Sayers, Lance
Rentzel and others. Pretty amazing and impressive group
of athletes, huh?
I also learned from Pine Bluff's own Arkansas Razorback
historian, Benny Reed, why Gary transferred from
Arkansas to Memphis State. Every week Coach Broyles had
Gary on the first team in practice but when game time
arrived he played Joe Paul Alberty (spelling?) in front
of Gary. This went on for several weeks until Gary had
enough and transferred to Memphis State.
We will always wonder what athletic career Gary would
have had if things were different.
However, it appears with his love of and for family,
his friends, and his music that his life was no less
successful and he lived with no regrets.
Bobby
Smithey
Lance, the thing about Gary that made me love him
was that despite all his physical and mental gifts
he was a humble and even shy man. When a man can
have the talent that Gary had and can be a regular
guy that makes him extra special.
My daughter is married to Chuck Johnson (Chuck
graduated with you) and Chuck has told me of how
Gary fathered you after your dad died. I am
paralyzed from the waist down from an accident in
1963 when I was 20 years old and have lived
paralyzed for the last 45 years. Ten years after my
injury I was in Conroe, Texas and knowing that Gary
lived in Spring, I called him and asked if he would
like to come over to the condo where I was staying.
He came over and we spent the evening catching up on
each others lives. He was extra special and he is
receiving his eternal reward as we communicate. One
of the rewards Jesus will bestow on him is helping
to raise a fine man like you.
I wanted to come to Gary's funeral service but I have a
torn left rotator cuff (5 tears) and am using a
power wheelchair to get around and it greatly limits
my ability transfer and travel. My thoughts and
prayers are with Barbara, his children and
grandchildren and you, your mother sister and Brent
and they will continue to be with you all. Let's
just all look forward to and prepare for that great
reunion day when we will see Jesus, Gary, your dad,
my dad and mom and all those Jesus paid the price
for so that by accepting Him as our personal Savior
we can have the eternal life that Gary is currently
rejoicing in.
I am sure that you and your family know what a
wonderful wife Barbara was to Gary through all of
this. She read our emails to him regularly to try to
cheer him up. She took care of all of his personal
needs and lovingly cared for him all the way till
God called him home. I would call her from time to
time and talk to her and Gary would try to talk
through her to me. Hearing this great man struggling
was especially heart breaking to me as a person who
has lived with a disability all of my life. I know
the rigors of this devastating damage to Gary's
earthly body has been very hard on all the family
and especially on Barbara. Not many wives could do
what she did. God will give her a crown for the way
she handled this tragedy. Lets pray especially hard
for her because she must now live with a large piece
of her missing until they are reunited.
May God bless you and yours.
Ralph Rouse
All:
I will write more later, however, I wanted to let you
all know how wonderful this tribute to Gary was and how
much I appreciated Bobby writing this. Our niece read
this at Gary's memorial service and everyone who knew
and loved Gary commented on what a perfect and
insightful description it was of him.
Thank you,
Bobby!
Barbara
I went to A.
Academy from K4 to 5Th grade then went to Sixth Ave.
This is a list of people I remember:
Overton Anderson, Terry Bradshaw, Mickey Callison,
Charlene Carter, Bun De Weese, Conley Fikes, Charles
Greenwood, Ronald Grimes, Jim Harrod, Judy Henry,
Charles Hillis, Dickie Lawrence, Jim McBurnett,
John Nash, Pete Paschal, Janet Searan, Sharon Smith,
Cappy Ware, Donald Warren, Evelyn West, Ruth West, Norma
Winstead, Jo Wood,
Miss Ethel Winters was our 5Th grade teacher. Miss
Helen Frazier was the principal and the 6The grade I
think was a Mrs. Hersher.
Jo
Wood Munn
I think we left out an Elementary School
You know, the older I get, the more I become aware that
the brain in my head is like a BB in a blimp. It never
was worth very much to me even though I am now working
very hard at acquiring the skills required for
graduating from the sixth grade at Gabe Meyer School. I
may make it sometime in the near future if I keep
working on it.
I was a part of the west end gang out on west 28th
to about 34th streets. I distinctly remember
that somewhere about mid year of the fourth grade, we
were separated right down the middle of 28th
street (my street). Those on the north side (mine)
continued to attend Gabe Meyer
while those on the south side went to a new school
called Forrest Park Elementary,
located at about 34th street and Hickory, I
think. I remember this well because my buddy a couple
houses down and across the street,
Paul Wright, was sent to the new school.
That in itself was not so bad , but was a particular
trauma to me because I hung around with Paul most of the
time, who kept me from being picked on by the local
school toughs. Yea, I remember it well because from that
point on, I got my butt kicked on a regular basis. In
fact, I think the number of bullies expanded rapidly to
keep up with the demand. That had to be the longest two
and a half years ever. Bobby
Kientz and Tommy Case
were at Gabe Meyer, but they just told me to learn to
run faster. They have been helping me out like that ever
since.
I seem to recall also that Bill
and Kay Price lived beyond 29th or 30th
street, something like that. I think Bill continued
attending Gabe Meyer and Kay went on to the new Forrest
Park School. I do not have a clue as to the why of that,
but Paul confirmed to me that is what he remembers also.
Others I can remember from that neighborhood going to
Gabe Meyer were; Buddy McGriff,
Edward Evans, Sharon Green ( from 27th
st)
Stephen Hawking
and I’m pretty sure about Bill
Price. The ones I can recall attending Forrest
Park ; Paul Wright, Jimmy
Mayfield, Eddie Stanley, Bill Gates.
There must be others from that neighborhood, but I have
trouble remembering what I did yesterday, much less half
a century ago. Ooh! Man! What I just said! That’s a long
time. To heck with it. I’m going flying.
Jerry
Cathcart
It sure means a lot to know that Bobby Smithey's wonderful tribute and eulogy to Gary Shinall is already posted on our class's website http://www.classof61.net , along with the amens from Ralph, Auvergne, Tom and others. The opportunity to learn about Gary and his life from these e-mails, and from the welcome words from Barbara and Lance, has, and will continue to, carry Gary's courage forward, one of his many bequeaths to us all. In a way, our e-mailings, seem to have become a companion piece to our website. As we've reminisced about our growing up years, Jerry Cathcart has been finding a place for them there, and it's an amazing experience to go to the website and see us all both as we were, and, in our current writings, as we are, still great storytellers, brimfull of memories of a place and a time as vivid as can be. Tom Bellhouse's stream of consciousness sure brought a lot of memories tumbling back ( I too recall how great those pool hall hamburgers were he referred to, and I've never found one to equal them ! Or those Green Castle chilidogs for that matter ! Funny how certain things seemed to go together. Nugrape and those chili dogs for instance.) I wonder if Tom knows that the state's premier Arkansas Business newspaper is owned and published by Buddy Hankins' son Jeff ? It was great to read David Duffy's first hand recall of The Alamo. I too recall it being wedged in between some early day strip mall businesses. Bucky recalls it not being far from John Noah's. Wherever it was it was too far for me to ride my bicycle to. David also recalled Sixth Avenue's schoolyard being full of kids, so the mystery continues as to why we're having such a hard time coming up with more than a handful of names. At least we have Bun and Bill's early recollection of the early years they were there. Speaking of David. If you ever wondered what Daniel Boone or Davy Crockett were like, you shoulda been a friend of David's growing up. David constructed his own log cabin while still in grade school, log by log. He was so adept with scout knife and hatchett, it was a wonder to behold. One time on my Grandad's farm, David and I got running so fast down a steep dry creek bed, we couldn't stop. But we wanted to ! 'Cause there was a snake coiled awaiting our arrival down below. Incredibly, still in full run, David somehow got his scout hatchett out of the scabbard, threw it, and when we'd reached the bottom, the snake was halved ! Still awaiting Buddy, David and Lawrence's input on the starter list for The Academy Kids ( Aside to TStone, Varga Szabo DID exist ! Please see Buddy and Bun's validation on that ! ) Bun recalls throwing the paper for the old White House Hotel and a nice lady who paid for all the " residents " It looks like, til we hear otherwise, that Lakeside must've had the only female principal, and from Bobby and Ashley's great newspaper clippings, it looks like some new names can be added to Bobby's First Ward lists. The Class of 1960 has a great newsletter and its source, Janice Helvey Tiner, has been really good about sending it upon request. TBarton receives it, as do, I thanks to Fred Ursery.Their on-going prayerlist includes David Finley, and I told her we'll add David to ours as well. There's prob'ly not a one of us who isn't struggling with some kind of challenge and,, it's heartening to feel those prayers, collectively and cumulatively, and It is wonderful news to hear from TStone that Dick Dewoody, tho he may've had to miss the RC & MoonPie Festival, was able to get to visit Destin, and hope he, Wayne, RRiley will give us a recap of that vacation ! Last time's Memory Stumpers were two fold. And on purpose ! ' Cause I knew if we got lucky, those two questions would flush out the two people best able to share info with us about them. The first, as you may recall, was " What was PB's own Soda Pop Bottling Co.? " And there's no-one on Planet Earth to share that with us any better than Tommy Barton our classmate who grew up with Doug's Bottling Co. as part of his neighborhood stomping grounds, and whose growing up years adventures could fill a chapter in JMarvin's book. But in the meantime, maybe he will recount some of those great memories in further detail. Like the time he and Freddy Davis discovered the....well, I'll leave it to Tommy to recap.... Second PB Question was " There was Another Kindergarten besides the AAcademy. What was it ? " Well, there just aint nobody better able to shed a little light and levity on this subject than the inimitable BKientz. As soon as this marathon e-mail winds up, I will ask our Master List Keeper, TCase, to Forward To All, Bobby's rollicking recreation of Mrs.Gray/Carter/Cooper ( there's still some debate as to her name )'s Kindergarten. And if it doesn't bring to mind the taste of graham crackers and milk, nothing will ! Oh, also, in one of the previous Memory Joggers, Fred Ursery won with his listing of 6 PB Drugstores. Somehow I substituted Central Pharmacy for Fred's Formby's listing. But no matter, since Central Pharmacy, like Bobbitt & Dancy's, Collier's, and Spillyards were all on Main Street,so they are a perfect lead in to this time's Memory Jogger ! And it's one that all can participate in : NAME AS MANY BUSINESSES THAT FACED ON TO MAIN STREET AS YOU CAN RECALL ( PRE McDonald's era ) You've got a head start with those 4 pharmacies, so sit back, close your eyes, and mentally, stroll up and down Main Street, and see how many Main Street establishments you can recall ( and,say, when you do, could you stop off in that pool hall Tom Bellhouse mentioned and get me one of those hamburgers ! ) God bless You All ! Hames
God bless You All ! Hames Jul-26-2008 In a message dated 7/13/2008 5:04:18 PM Central Daylight Time, HamesWare writes: 1 ) Along with the Annunciation Academy kindergarten, there was another kindergarten that existed in those early days. Anybody remember or attend it ? Ms. GRAY????????
It was located on Cherry Street, about one block from Gabe Meyer School. It was run by a nice elderly lady that I know had a big black cauldron stashed away somewhere in the back where she boiled young boys on the nights when the moon was full. I attended there (when I couldn't fake a fatal illness that would keep me home) and remember the sleeping mats, warm milk and Graham Crackers that we were forced to eat each day. There were several other young children incarcerated with me if I remember correctly. I think I quickly joined forces with the group and we started planning an escape. If I remember right, we were given an outside sojourn once each morning, that's when we were gonna make our break. We had it all worked out, the red headed kid was supposed to distract the warden with a fake tummy ache while me and the other two climbed the fence...(The gate was never locked...duh!) anyway the redheaded kid wasn't able to pull off the Agonizing tummy turmoil and in fact squealed on us thus terminating our Great Escape and getting me expelled from kindergarten.....Broke my heart. Needless to say my Grandparents failed to comprehend that this little episode was merely a prelude to the coming years and my devotion to scholastic endeavors. Howsomever, that's what I remember and that's the way it was in my world.
Bobby Kientz Jul-28-2008 Yo Bad Bob, I remember quite a few of your early endeavors and in fact was found guilty by association more times than I care to remember. After conferring with T. Case and several others in the know, we are quite certain that the phrase “devotion to scholastic” in the above paragraph is either a type-o or flight of fancy. We feel the word scholastic in relation to your adventures is pretty much of a stretch. I don't think anyone would be caught calling what you were endeavoring to do scholastic. It was, however, very educational. Anyway, that is what Case, Duncan, Lawrence, Skillen, Lemen and a few dozen others seem to recall. Could it be? No, not possible you say!! O.K., I believe you! JWC Jul-28-2008Hi all,
Lakeside district went at least to 9th and Olive. Bud Gibbe lived between 9th and 10th on Olive. George Lemen Jul-28-2008
Ralph, Thanks for the note. Yes it is hard seeing someone close reaching the end of this earthly life. I have been through it with both my parents, my in-laws, and with close friends Gerald Cornish and Rita Rowell Hale, and now Dick. We all have to do it some time, but it doesn't seem to get easier. Thanks , again, and God bless you, too.
On Jul 22, 2008, at 5:01 PM, ralphrouse wrote:
Wayne, my firend, how are you doing. I wanted express to you how much I appreciate you for being the kind o person who is there for his friend in time of need. I know it must be difficult to see Dick regularly and see him trying to deal with his brain cancer. I have written and talked with Dick by telephone and told him I am praying for him. Do you know of anything else I can do?
What is a telephone number where I can call you from time to time.
Wayne, God will bless you for all of this and I thank you.
Ralph Rouse Jul-28-2008
Weak minds think alike Dick. I, like Bobby, started to view the Bucket List last night but I realized it was past 9 pm and having to get up early and go to work on Monday I did not. None the less, I have seen to promotions on television and get the idea. I just sent Wayne Matthews an email last week telling him how much I appreciate him being there for you through these trying times. As I told you in my last telephone conversation, I love you and am praying for you real hard and as well for you daughter and new grandson. Lean upon the Lord my friend.
RalphRouse to Dick Dewoody Jul-28-2008  If you are thinking of copying an email and pasteing it into this program, <click here first >
Thanks Jul-30-2008
Everyone:
My children and I would like to thank each of you for the support and love you gave Gary when he was so ill with ALS. A special thanks to Ralph who called us regularly to check on us, to Bobby who wrote the most wonderful tribute to Gary and to Hames who pulled the "Will O' the Wisp' together so that everyone could share their stories. Gary looked forward to me reading the emails to him and, if he had felt better, I am sure he would have added some stories himself!!
God saw you getting tired When a cure was not to be. So he wrapped his arms around you and whispered, "Come to Me".
Our deepest and most sincere thanks to each of you.
Barbara Shinall, Karla Shinall Macik and Alex Shinall Aug-03-2008 08/04/2008 To Dick Dewoody
I finally saw the movie Bucket List. It was a very entertaining movie. The part that I liked the best was how Morgan Freeman was asking Jack Nicholson, who was not a believer, about what he thought about the after life and Jack asked him if he knew something that he didn't and Morgan remarked "not really, I just have faith". Dick. I pray for you and your family daily. Ralph Rouse Aug-06-2008 8/05/08 Telephone Conversation with Barbara Shinall I called Barbara today to check on her and her family. Barbara is having a very difficult time coping right now with the aftermath of the ordeal that Gary and she had to go through and the loss of Gary and the void it has created in her life. She told me it is even harder than she had imagined. She needs our prayers now more than ever. I suggested that she might seek professional help and assistance from a pastor, a counselor, a support group, etc. I reminded her that the Bible tells us that we are not to sorrow as those who have no hope. (I Thessalonians 13-18).
Barbara told me that the service was in a rural wooded area and was simple but very nice just like Gary wanted it. She said the only family memebers who were unable to attend were Brent, for health reasons, and Brent, Jr., for business reasons. I asked her to send pictures of Gary's daughter and son and Lance as adults if she has them and can. I told her that I wanted to help her in any way that I can and I gave her my telephone numbers. I think it is important for us to continue praying for Barbara and her family as she strives to cope and adjust in time to this loss. Ralph Rouse Aug-06-2008 Correction regarding my telephone convesation with Barbara Shinall. The scripture reference that I meant to give is I Thessalonians 4:13-18. Excuse the typo. Ralph Rouse Aug-06-2008 Gerry Lee Eilbott Soltz Aug-06-2008 Greetings to all my Lakeside grade school and junior/senior high friends. We have all enjoyed hearing from the "boys" about their athletic and scout adventures. As I mentioned to Hames at one point, it is fascinating to hear about what was going on in the "male world" even as we girls were having "bunking" parties, doing each others' hair, having "lemon squeezes" and mixing all the different varieties of liquor from our parents' cabinets with cokes. While you boys were gathering around the coaches for Lakeside Blue Jay skirmishes, we girls were reading movie magazines, going to the "show" on Sunday afternoons to see Debby Reynolds at the Saenger, and having girl scout meetings on Wednesday afternoons. As we approached our teens, we started going out on "car dates, " had weekend all night poker parties, and danced up a storm at one of the FIRST televised dance parties, at KATV on Saturday mornings. Howard Watson was the DJ, our cool equivalent of Dick Clark. And we all vied to dance with the "older" guys such as Tommy Hopkins, who knew all the Arkansas Push moves! Monday afternoons, after school, many of us young junior high girls trouped over to the YWCA for activities, and planned parties and get togethers that we could invite our "boyfriends" to. We dragged Cherry with whatever friend had a car, even without a license, and then went home to spend HOURS on the phone , rehashing "who said what to whom" that day and whom we had seen on our endless repetitive driving routes. The day wasn't complete without a burger from The Hut on Cherry, or early on, a trip to Walgreen's to sit at the counter for a fountain coke. By each Friday afternoon, everyone had made her week-end sleepover plans. And arrangements would be made to sneak out in pajamas and meet at one another's houses. (Sometimes in cars pushed out of our parents' driveways.These were the best cruising times, around midnight, when the thrilling possiblilty of being caught by police or our parents when we got home heightened the escapade.) Why is it that we all remember with so much fondness all these juvenile activities, when we didn't even have Walkmans, cell phones, text messaging, call-waiting, internet access, and all the other common techno stuff I can't even name? I think there was a delicious anonymity to our lives: often no one, frequently esPECIALLY our parents, knew where we were, nor often how to find us. We were out in a vast (to us anyway) hidden childlike world with its own special boundaries, language, dress, and behavior. We created our own imaginary adventures, with all of Pine Bluff our playground. We felt safe in a time when doors were not locked, we biked without helmets, and rode in cars without seatbelts. There were precious few "restrictions", either physical or mental, on our roaming. We lived comfortably with neighborhood boys toting loaded BB guns. And everyone wanted, and got, pea shooters for Christmas. --We girls entered "maturity" with physical rites of passage: first bras, menstrual periods, body hair. Whispered confidences and notes passed in class notifed friends of new boyfriends or the latest scandalous behavior of "older girls." We vied over whom to invite to the frequent Junior Social and Pollyanna dances. Mrs Louise May was our wonderful mentor from grade school on, providing us with our first exposure to Boy-Girl etiquette at her weekly dance classes at her home. We were enormously blessed that she and her saint of a husband, Charlie May, oversaw and chaperoned so many of our formal dances at the Tavern at Oakland. For someone like me who LOVED everything about jitterbugging, I was an eternal fan of Mrs. May (who always smelled of coffee and cigarettes). Okay. I'm sure that you "Boys" have read enough. But I'll bet the girls out there have some more memories to add to mine. Fondly, Catherine Young Cockrill (Little Rock) Catherine Young Cockrill Aug-15-2008
Looking forward to catching up with all the correspondence on the website, thanks to Jerry making it so simple. He's created the 21st Century equivalent to the Old General Store, and I am looking forward to visiting soon, putting my feet up, and reading what all of you have been adding to the roundrobin that Bobby,Ralph and Gary and Barbara inspired. Jerry's directions to our " General Store ", " Just go to the for page, http://www.classof61.net/sharing/feedback.htm click in the input box. Type your name in the black box and click on the submit button and your addition will be added at the bottom of the page. You then will have a link to go to the page http://www.classof61.net/sharing to see input " So simple even I should be doing just that with this latest entry. So why aren't I ? Well, I'll borrow from Moe, Larry & Curly, who can best explain my absence these past few weeks ( with apologies to TS & TWB who've already heard this one ! )
ME : Hello Doc, Long time, no see ! EYE DR. : Very Funny Mr. Warde. Time is money. Sit down and tell me if you can read that first line of words. ME : What line of words ?? DR : The line on the chart. ME: What chart ?? DR : The chart on the wall ! ME: What wall ??? DR: Next patient !
In truth, I've got a great eye doctor ( If still in PB I would of course be going to Dr. Hughes ! ), and things are better now and I am very grateful for that. Still, one of the things I have to limit is the computer, so I will wait to visit the General Store til next time, and hope that our benevolent webmaster will post this for me and thus free me up to put my full energies and time into this e-mail itself, which, due to having been away for a while, may well turn out to be the longest entry yet ! so here goes:
Hames Aug-17-2008
The last " Growing Up Years " Trivia question related to how many businesses faced on to Main Street that we could recall. So far, not having checked the website additions, the list contains the following ( Must be PRE McDonalds era ): MALCO STRAND ( Vester was on the side ) BOBBITT& DANCY STAG DOMINO PARLOR COHEN'S KAHN'S BAER'S ( Had a big stuffed bear out front ! ) FROUG'S COFFEE CUP REED-COLLIER'S HIGGASON'S RESTAURANT PINES HOTEL BUDDY'S SUNSHINE SHOP LONG'S BOOK STORE CENTRAL PHARMACY HOLLOWAY'S GROCERY SIDNEY GOOD'S ADAM'S BARBER SHOP SPILLYARD'S and that's just prior to the entries moving to the website, where hopefully, the rest of Main Street Mainstays can be added ! This time's PBPuzzler is the first for which we don't have an answer, unless one of you out there can come up with it. Otherwise, we will have been outdone by Milton Hughes, who, via Fred Ursery suggested it, and, who, we can hope, DOES know the answer ! I should say that half of Milton's Puzzler, I have no trouble recalling and that's the name of the PBHS Caretaker, who lived under the football stadium, and I'll bet most of you will recall him too. ( For whatever reason I also have no problem recalling the names of the custodians at the two elementary schools I attended. Ben and Wesley. Two fine individuals who cared about the schools they worked for and all us kids ) But Milton's 2nd part is the hardest part : The name of that odd shaped dog that followed along behind him everywhere he went. If you can nail that one, then you go to the Pantheon of Recall Excellence, now inhabited by Tommy Barton, Fred Ursery, Bobby Kientz & Catherine Young ! Mysteries of other sorts have been falling by the wayside, as witness Overton's finally helping us get a bead on Sixth Avenue, Buddy McFadin's rounding out of the Academy kids ( Tom Foti, Ronnie McKenzie, Josephine Belvedresi, John Horwedel ( RIP ), The Beasley Boys, and how could I have left off Jo Wood and Charlene Oliver??!! Another great by-product of this Round Robin has been the way it has incorporated others from different years, Class of 1960,1963 and now, this week, 3 great e-mail reminiscences from Mary Elkins Lewis, Class of 1962 ! Mary is another Sixth Avenuer and added Sharon Smith to Overton's list of students, and also helped clear up one of the western school boundaries, as Mary said her family lived on Pullen, and that some of the nearby kids attended Dollarway and White Hall. The Other Kindergarten finally has a name, Mrs. Cooper's, and from a variety of those who attended the following roll call: BOBBY KIENTZ GERRY LEE EILBOTT NELL PHILLIPS MILTON HUGHES BILL LAFITTE COOKIE WILLIS BUDDY REID and I think George Lemen said he was there too. Gerry said that it sided on Cherry and that the kids played upstairs, while Mrs. Cooper and her husband ( who worked as a policeman or Sherrif's Deputy, lived upstairs ) It may seem we've spent an inordinate amount of time on Elementary Schools, making lists of the kids, et al, but when you stop and think about it, those years and those kids played a big part in our growing up years. And in many cases, some of those kids, didn't get to stay in our lives long enough to make it to our PBHS years, yet it's clear from all the responses, we all still have vivid memories of those years and those kids and Pine Bluff as it was back then. To personalize it all, I know that I probably never would've learned to draw, had I not gotten to watch an early master at work. Mercer Mayer was only at Lakeside Elementary for two years, but he was already great at drawing, and now is one of America's premier Illustrators. Mike Crane was another kid who could draw and who didn't make it to Junior High with us. Bill Stephenson made it to Junior High ( In fact, Bill was almost our Junior High Student Council President ), but then my good neighborhood friend and his family moved away to La. Then there was Freeman Sawyer, whose grandfather ran the Pine Bluff Commercial. Freeman lived out on a farm that adjoined another stand out who didn't stay on in PB, Margaret Coster, and each Halloween, Freeman's family would host all of us Lakeside kids to fantastic Halloween parties. And I'm sure, every single one of you could name an equal number of kids who shared your grade school and early PB years, who also, left somewhere along the way to high school, and so that's why I think these Elementary School Lists and memories remain so much a part of our younger lives and recall, as witnessed by all the e-mails. And maybe at this point, it's a good time to ask our Webmaster a question: Jerry, is it possible to somehow separate out the grade school lists, school by school, so that additions to the roll call could be easily made ?? I'm thinking of how great it would be to be able to click on, say, GABE MEYER, and allow new names to be added to those kids recalled on the starter list. Lakeside is complete and alphabetized, and it should be relatively simple to do the same for all the other schools as well. If you are able to work out a format,hopefully each school will get its own roll call, as we've got most of each schools' kids' names already, amongst all the various e-mails } Back to the kids who left before or during our High School Years, Johnny Williams deserves a separate chapter all his own, Catherine Young ( Cockrill ), who's just written that she's written something for the website, which I am already looking forward to reading, as her imagery in relating PB memories is incredible. And then, there is Richard Finley Dewoody. I got a chance to stop by his LR offices last week and talk to his wonderful daughter Maggie. Dick is taking one day at a time right now and I know he feels the prayers that are coming from us all. In writing about my lifetime friend, Dick Dewoody, I cannot recall a time in my life that I didn't know him. We attended the same church and Sunday School. Dick was able to sing well known hymns with new lyrics that only I and others nearby could hear. Dick's lyrics were sidesplittingly funny and while we were bursting out laughing and getting into trouble, Dick always managed to stay composed ( he wouldn't remain that lucky once we got into Scouts ! ), Once we were well into grade school, the Dewoodys would invite me over to Sunday lunches after church was over. I really looked forward to those times. Dick, possessed the biggest yard and the most toys of any kid in Pine Bluff. He had a horse, the best comic book collection imaginable ( including all those my parents wouldn't let us have ! ),a tree house, and as we got older, his dad had the unused stable back in the woods near the ravine converted into a club house for all us kids. Dick's dad was an amazing man. His own father had invented Mexana, and the cans still bore the name Dewoody on them on up until the 1960's. Dick's mom was our cubscout den mom ( David Finley, being a year older, was our pack leader. (( Many of us are keeping David in our prayers, as he too is dealing with illnesses )) Getting to spend the night out was a major event for me, and thanks to Dick, I got to do that a lot. Once the clubhouse was converted, Tommy Stone, Bill Stephenson, and I would consider ourselves lucky if our phones rang on Saturdays and Dick's gruff voice, foregoing " hellos" et al, would simply say " Wanna Sleep ? " That shorthand and those two words meant that we'd all be sharing in adventures too great and fun to be equalled. Because sleeping is probably the only thing we DIDN'T do at the Dewoody Club House ! Mostly, like many other boys and girls of our era, we'd sneak out, and roam all over PB. I guess we were too old for bicycles and too young for motor scooters, because as I recall, we roamed all over Pine Bluff on foot. We must've told every ghost story, played in every vacant lot, and snuck into many churches just to " explore " .Recalling just one of those nights, something had happened to all of PB's street lights and all of them were eerily blinking on and off with the effect being like a silent flickering movie, with only the smudge pots to guide our path. As we got older and discovered girls, our destinations were most often guided in that direction, as many of the girls were getting to spend their nights out as well. About that time, Bill's family was told they'd be moving to La. and the gang lost a vital member and I a great neighbor. At 15 I fell in love with a 14 year old and she consumed most of my attention for the next three years, and that earlier part of my life drifted away from me. But never that far away. All of us have remained good friends over all these years. And sometimes at one of our gatherings at the Stones, I will turn to Dick and say " You know, old pal, you saved my life " And inevitably, Dewoody will look at me quizzically. I guess he may discount what an important part he played and plays in a lot of our lives who were fortunate enough to have shared those times with him. He is a once in a lifetime friend. He is in all our prayers. God bless Richard Finley Dewoody. Hames
Hames Aug-17-2008
"Will O' the Wisp"
The purpose of presenting the "Will O' the Wisp" in the format I created was to allow all the members and friends of the class of 61 that wished to be involved in the "round robin communication" to have a fairly easy vehicle with which to do so. If the "Will O' the Wisp" is used like an email, then we have a continuous communication through it instead of through selected emails. It offers several advantages: FIRST-: It places everything in a common place, accessable with a click of the mouse.( Check out the bookmark on the page) SECOND -; It is more or less continuous, and easy to go back to previous entries. Not everyone is using the same email list, therefore, sometimes you get only the replys to comments, without ever seeing the origional comment, and vice versa. THIRD-; It puts everyone in the same loop, at the same time, on the same page. That is a whole lot easier for me to follow than anything else I know of. It sounds better if we all are using the same sheet of music. FOURTH-; What should be presented. The major hesitation I had when presenting the origional emails that I had copied was not knowing for sure if there could have been something in them that the author wanted to be seen only by the recepients to which the email was addressed. This gives each contributor the ability to "keep it private" or "make it public" by using this forum. Each individual makes that decision, not a dingbat like me. FIFTH-; There is a link to this site on the class of 61 web, so all of the class members will know about this and be able to participate if they so desire. Many will just read and maybe never contribute. That's OK, too. There are probably other advantages that I just can't think of at the moment. If you can think of any, use the "Will O' the Wisp" to present them. See how that simplifies things. Some of us have a real need to keep it that way. Here is how I see using this:
If there is something you wish to say or present, and you would do it in a round robin email forum, then present it here, knowing that everyone will be able to view it. (That includes the world you know. This is the www) This forum would be a replacement for the round robin emails.
That's it!
It does not have to be an earth shattering literary achievement. It can be something as simple as "Hey! Bad Bob! Quit being so lazy and get to doing something!" or "Has anyone heard from Rick Skillen lately?" If you read what has already been presented, you will see a pretty good mixture of just about everything. That is how it should be.
So, What do YOU think? I know a really neat way you can let us all know.
admin Aug-18-2008
To Ralph Rouse from admin: My most humble apologies for my goofey sense of humor. You know, my Godfather aproach to the cut and paste thingy. Thingy is a technical word ,you know. Didn't mean to be so harsh. Just a fun, technical thingy to make.
To All from admin: I also apologise to you all for my lack of expertise in the real technical parts of the www, but some of us just can't quite get there. The reasons for not being able to cut and paste an email into this program is that email uses the SMTP protocol, complete with it's own backgroung code to make it work. The program I made uses straight text and converts it into HTML so it can be presented on a web page. MS word also uses a background code to make it do what it does. All that different code running amuck and colliding in the background confuses the 1's and 0's we are all using like we know what we are doing, especially me. Now somebody smart could figure that out, but that excludes someone who uses technical words like 'thingy" and the like. Yup, that's me. So until you guys revolt and fire the current admin for incompetence, we are stuck with it. I know there are many things that people would like to cut and paste to present to the "Will O' the Wisp" forum. NO ONE wants to retype an email for example. No way! There is a simple solution, however. If you have windows on your computer, you have wordpad, notepad or both. These are true text editors. Just copy what you want ,say for example , an email, paste it into wordpad or notepad, then recopy it from there and paste it into the "Will O' the Wisp" upload program. Putting it into either one of these programs removes the backgroung code and leaves true text. It works. Try it, you'll like it. That is how I uploaded this. P.S.- Again, please forgive my sense of humor. Remember, I see the world in a different sort of way. You know anyone who straps a prop to his rear end and then goes.....................................................! but, that's another story.
admin Aug-18-2008
To Hames Ware 16 Aug 2008
Not sure if this will help or muddy the water, but I lived off Pullen Street in Pine Bluff and attended Sixth Avenue. However some of the kids very close to me went to Dollarway. Since my older brother had gone to Pine Bluff Schools my mom decided that my younger brother and I should also. I don't think I ever thought too much about the Arsenal kids but unless they were trying to distribute federal money why on earth wouldn't they have gone to Dollarway or even Whitehall. I had some cousin's who lived at the Arsenal and they went to Whitehall. I am enjoying reading the memories.
Mary Elkins Lewis, class 0f 62 Aug-19-2008 Dear Mary, It's just great to read all you've written ! Thank you for taking the time to help us solve some ofthe mysteries of Sixth Avenue ( mysteries only because the original congregation of e-mailers didn't have a Sixth Avenue alumnus among them )? Then happily, Bill Stephenson and Bun Deweese gave us a boost by recalling their first few years were there. Then just last week or so, Overton Anderson gave us some great first hand memories from his years there. And now yours, which I hope you will allow to go on to the website, as they sure offer some wonderful insights. Were you related to Mis Elkins the teacher ? She helped me improve my math grades one year when she tutored in the summer. Then I also remember an elderly lady who lived not to far down the street from us named Dr. Jennie Elkins.The class of '62 will always hold a special place for all of the class of '61, and of course for me personally, and?all should?feel flattered that you have enjoyed?our website, which Jerry Cathcart has almost single handedly constructed and maintained for us. Thank you again for taking time to write and hope you'll continue to share any of your memories of those wonderful years !!! Hames Ware Aug-19-2008
Dear Hames, Thanks for replying so quickly. It is fine to use the comments on the website. The algebra teacher was not kin to me, but I also had her as a teacher. She is now Mrs. Day. In fact I wrote her not long ago thanking her for being my teacher. I went on to teach school myself for about 35 years before I retired. I also was not kin to the Dr. Elkins. My branch came from Alabama. My immediate Elkins relatives mostly lived in Whitehall. My dad was the only one who came to town and stayed. My dad worked for the Cotton Belt. My mom was actually of Czech descent. Her dad was a tailor in PB for many years. I am not sure where he did his work but somewhere on Main. He died in 1937 so I actually never met him.
Mary Elkins Lewis, class of 62 Aug-19-2008 Dear Mary, You mention an older brother attending PBHS. What years was he there ?? I recall another Elkins family, I think, who were electricians in PB. Do you recall the name of your relative who was a tailor. Vic Hiryak, in our senior class was born in Slovak, Arkansas, which had a fairly large Czech population when we were all growing up. Where did you wind up teaching school ? I taught for a few years myself, gave it all I had, and then felt it was time to do other work. I admire the fact you were able to stick to it as long as you did ! Hames Aug-19-2008
As I look back over this I have probably told you more than you ever wanted to know or had asked but I will leave it and you can stop when you are tired or bored or both. My older brother(who later worked for the postal service) would have been class of '53 except he joined the Marine Corp at 17. When he started grade school there was actually some kind of school right in our neighborhood, which was off of Pullen street. If you know where the railroad track crosses Pullen or at least used to not sure it is still there, we lived back on a street called Scull Street. The electrician was not kin to us either. Most of our Elkins were farmers or ministers and lived more in the Whitehall area. I have quite a few cousins that graduated from White Hall. My dad's parents had 16 kids, about 13 lived to maturity. My mom's family was the total opposite. She had one brother who survived to marry and he only had one daughter. Her other two brothers, one died about 5 or 6 years from being kicked in the head by a horse or mule as best I remember the story. Another younger brother came back from World War II with TB of the spine and died in 1948. I have dim memories of him holding my then year old brother on his lap. My younger brother graduated in 1965 and is an emergency room nurse at Jefferson Hospital. He has a house built on part of the ancestral Liska property.The tailor's name(my mom's dad) was Joseph Liska. He came from Czechoslovakia with an older brother and learned the trade from him. These brothers were at one time tailors for Grover Cleveland when he was mayor of Buffalo, governor of New York and later when he was President of the US. You know he was the President with nonconsecutive terms. As for where I taught school that is an even longer story. After PBHS I went to college at Bethany Nazarene College which is in Bethany, Oklahoma. While there I met a man from Fort Worth, Tx who later joined the Navy. We married in June of 1965 and he was promptly sent to Viet Nam(as in I didn't see him for 15 months after only having been married 3 weeks). I had one more year of college left so I finishes up while he was gone. After his return, we went to South Carolina and this was my first teaching experience in the early days of integration. Hedid not want to go back to Vietnam which was understandable so after his 4 years was up we returned to Oklahoma, where I taught in Yukon, Ok for 3 and 1/2 years before the birth of our daughter. Due to many circumstances he decided to return to the military and he remained there for the next twenty something years. I subbed in Great Lakes, Illinois before I had my second child. Then we were off to California for a short stay. Next came Okinawa, Japan where I taught for the Department of Defense for one semester. After that I found a private Catholic School that wanted Englis speaking teachers and I taught there from 1974 until 1976. After returning to the US we were stationed in Corpus Christi, Tx. I taught in a district called Flour Bluff from 1978-81. I had to sub to get my foot in the door so to speak before that. After leaving Corpus we went to Virginia where I subbed only because of their strange licensing requirements for teachers. Then on to Athens, Georgia where I worked in reservations for the Holiday Inn.This was actually quite interesting because computers weren't what they are today and I was able to get a lot of training on computers from them. Also the University of Georgia is in Athens and our hotel was on the corner of UGA campus. On football weekends our hotel was the place to be. Of course for you to get in someone had to practically die and leave you their reservation. Those Dogs are as serious about football as the Razorbacks believe me. I have never heard Hunker Down Hairy Dog so much in my life. After the tour in Athens my husband was nearing the end of his required time with the Navy for retirement. He was originally from Fort Worth and since his parents were both getting up in years we chose to retire to Fort Worth. I started looking for a job as soon as the boxes were in the house and as luck would have it I found a job in Burleson, Texas at a Middle School that was desperate for a math teacher. I spent the next 20 years teaching Math in Burleson(home of Kelly Clarkson of American Idol fame). I retired in May of 2006 after my husband had died in January of 2006 following complications of quadruple bypass surgery. I wanted time to enjoy my grandchildren whose numbers were increasing and that is what I have done for the last 2 years.
Mary Elkins Lewis, class of 62 Aug-19-2008 Ralph Rouse to Admin: No need for apology to me. I thought it was funny when you pulled a Capone on me. Your explanation on how to transfer an email to notepad is something I have not done but I will try to figure it out. I want to thank you for making it easy for all of us to communicate as we can. It was my IT ignorance that caused me to cut and paste emails to this and your Godfather responsibility to make me an offer I can't refuse. Ralph Rouse Aug-19-2008
On Aug 17th, Hames Asked: And maybe at this point, it's a good time to ask our Webmaster a question: Jerry, is it possible to somehow separate out the grade school lists, school by school, so that additions to the roll call could be easily made ?? I'm thinking of how great it would be to be able to click on, say, GABE MEYER, and allow new names to be added to those kids recalled on the starter list.
Check this out and see if it will do. I think it is what you are asking for:<<<< Go Here>>>>
admin Aug-20-2008 I have been keeping in touch with Barbara Shinall and I am happy to say that while she is missing a big part of herself and her family with Gary gone to be with the Lord, she is working hard to heal. I have gotten four emails that she has sent to her family and extended family that shared her faith and hope in the Lord and His promise to those who believe. One was a scripture tree that when you clicked on each leaf or bird on the tree you got a scripture of hope and promise from God's word. She is not only working to heal, she is working to help her family heal both immediate and extended. In one of the emails she told me about how Gary and her oldest, their only daughter KK who was her dads biggest fan, and how Barbara sees Gary in KK. She talked about how KK is so much like Gary with his rare sense of humor. She talked about their youngeast and only son, Alex, and how he had stepped up to the plate upon his dads passing and was helping his mother and keeping their property mowed and cared for . She said that Alex is even a better man. I told her that this reminds me of Romans 8:28 "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them that are called according to His purpose."
Barbara is doing what we all need to do. The Bible is clear that not all things are good, but that for believers, all things work together for good and Barbara, as a believer, is looking for the good and calling upon the Lord to help her heal from her devastating loss. Pray for her and her family. KK and her family have invited her to go with them on a float trip down a river in west Texas and she is looking forward to that. Ralph Rouse Aug-20-2008 Hames had another great idea and Jerry "Capone" Cathcart has made it happen. I am the first to register. Therefore, the score is Lakeside 1 and all others ZERO. Ralph Rouse Aug-20-2008
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